I don't want to be a killjoy here. Really the guy was hot and all that, but watching this really worried me about this young man. Why was he targeted? There is no explanation and if there is I can't find it.
I don't get it.
Look…. don’t get me wrong; I’m all for a fun time with my friends, but then again we have to draw the line somewhere. There has been a concerted effort on the part of a lot of people especially here in this forum to stamp out bullying. Isn't this bullying? Those of us (not me, but some here are) who are into the whole BDSM thing and I have nothing against that at all, but for those who do partake in BDSM do nothing against someone’s will. Daddy/boy, Master/slave, bondage, spanking or whatever I get that, but always there is a safe word, but this just looked like a spontaneous mob of drunks with nobody in control. At the very least this looks like illegal imprisonment, rape, torture. This person surly said “no” enough times.
Some might say it was just some hazing, but with recent deaths we’ve learned that hazing and bullying are the same things. It looked to me that even in jest something could have gone horribly wrong even if by accident.
Have none of you ever been in a situation like this where a party or a group of friends were messing around maybe even targeting you in harmless prank, but even though you were scared out of your mind you kept laughing just to keep the aggressors from getting to serious? How do we know what this person was thinking?
I don't know about any of you, but I started watching this video at first out of curiosity and suddenly I was confused. I actually started getting ill remembering being in just such a situation. Then I figured there had to be more of a point to this so I skipped forward to see what that point was, but all I found myself doing was looking to see if someone would put a stop to it. I was actually hoping the police would show up.
http://www.stophazing.org/nuwer/Jul272010.htm
Now I'm all for showing videos of things like guys resting their balls on a pool table knowing someone's going to try to bank one off them, or drunken spring breakers belly flopping in a pool. Great fun, but these people do so on their own and at their own risk.
Also and let me make this clear. I don't think this video should be removed. I think it should stay if only to see what sort of emotional reactions it brings up. I'm all for a good clean debate. I just wish I could know the whole story behind this video and if the targeted person is ok. If I knew that much I know I wouldn't even had mentioned it here.
yeah this is wrong.. and i think the video should be taken down.. this guy dose not want anyone to see this