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DOES ANYOMNE KNOW WHERE JAY IS (SURFERBOI)?

Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 2.1K views 45 comments
MY BEST FRIEND JAY HAS BEEN MISSING FOR 8 DAYS NOW AND WE CANT FIND HIM,EVERYONE IN OUR TOWN IS SEARCHING FOR HIM. DOES ANYONE NO WHERE HE IS OR COULD BE? OR IS HE WITH SOMEONE ON THIS SITE? COS I READ SOME OF HIS POSTS ON HERE ABOUT WANTING TO STAY WITH PEOPLE AND IM SCARED INCASE SOMEONE IS AFTER KIDNAPPING HIM. I HAVENT TOLD ANYONE THAT HES ON THIS SITE COS IM THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS HES GAY. PLEASE HELP? HAS ANYONE ON HERE TALKED TO HIM? WHATS THE LAST THING HE SAID TO YOU? WE ARE ALL FEARING THE WORST ATM. ANYONE?

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11 years ago

The guy that originally posted this, is probably the one that kidnapped him.

11 years ago

i have posted help links on jay's profile. tbh, i have seen behavior like this from him before on here and for those who do hurt or have problems if this is false it is so wrong. still when help may be need by someone you try to help. jay if you need help go to your profile and call one of the numbers there toll free. if you have run away then call runaway switchboard at 1-800-RUNAWAY or if need shelter call the nineline at 1-800-999-9999 ~ do it if you need help or pm me and i make sure you get help where ever you are on earth!

11 years ago

Last year my best friend and his wife in Willard Missouri were taken from their home, they were missing for months we all searched franticlly finally their bodies were found badly decomposed in a field in rural Missouri. I will never see Russ and Becky again. We still have no Idea who killed them or why. They never hurt or bothered anyone, so when I see someone make up a story like this for attention it really pisses me off. If you wonder why this bothers me so much: http://misspriss.org/2011/04/21/missing-persons-rusty-and-becky-porter

11 years ago

i hope he is ok

fungus320
fungus320
11 years ago

Andy that is a most insightful message. It may very well be that Jay needs some time out. However some of the posts I have seen here are totally unnaccepable and hurtful if Jay ever saw them which I sincerely hope he doesnt. I dont see GBT as a porn site but as a community that supports and cares for each other. Please, those that have sent hurtful messages consider whether you a part of a loving community or not. With some rage, David

nate88
nate88
11 years ago

I'm proud to see more positive posts. We can only take a cry for help at face value. It's up to US to give support and careing. If we are being fooled - shame on them BUT if we don't offer helpand support and make crude comments, WELL -Shame on US. Jay apparently needs professional help. I do understand some long time members that recal surferboy pulling some shananagins and was bumped off. Maybe part of the help he may need is not be a GBT. It appears his stability or lack there off has done him more harm than good at GBT. We all have our own burdens to carry - we want to help Jay but he needs to WANT TO help himself first. It's only my opinion, but when a members mental stability gets this severe. GBT is more of a distraction than a place to get the help he needs. ANDY

11 years ago

Hey Clarke, you may very well be the only person that Jay is gona trust for a long time. This will involve a big investment of time by you. I hope you are ready to do this for him. This is the type of thing that scares the living shit out of me for all you beautiful young guys on here (and you are ALL beautiful guys). It is so easy for wicked people to pray on vulnerable guys like Jay and do unspeakable things to them. I saw his requests for help, and if I was living in the states, would have offered to help him, but sadly I live far away in NZ, and now I am so upset to hear what has happened to him. But at least he is alive and has not had some terrible death - we must surely be thankful for that at least. I'm thinking of him (and you). Phil

1antoniomac
1antoniomac
11 years ago

smh smh smh what in the hell ever happened to if you aint got anything good to say dont say anything

11 years ago

I find myself surprised by the tone of some of the comments. While I do believe that a person should always be cautious and keep a level of skepticism. The accusatory and even vengeful tone of some of the posts seem harsh and uncalled for. One of the things I like about this site is the sense of community and caring. When the tone of conversation becomes shrill and uncivil it destroys the ability for people to share their issues or concerns out of the fear that someone will not believe them and will attack them. Civility of discourse seems to be a thing that is slowly being obliterated by the ability to respond in near anonymity. Just my perspective.

11 years ago

I will make some inquiries with friends of mine and see what I can find out. when I have the facts I will post them, till then I will not say anything else. If I am wrong I will apologize. If it turns out to be a hoax then I can say I told you so.

11 years ago

In fact give us the name of the hospital we might take up a collection to try to help with the medical bills

11 years ago

What hospital is jay in I would like to send flowers?

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
11 years ago

well said nate well said mike

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
11 years ago

well said nate

nate88
nate88
11 years ago

I'm seeing some UGLY traits from some members that are very unkind and hurtful. Blogs are open to all comments. SOMErecent comments are cruel and unkind. If you can offer 'friendship' support. Why post a hurtful message. That borders on being a BULLY.ALL my friends and many members know I care about ALL. Haters are not welcome in a friend based site. If you can't appologize then at least put your hate aside before logging on. I trust this type of behavior will not continue towards Jay or any other member. I know I will have the support of must members here.PLEASE STOP HURTING OTHERS. Thank You - Andy

letsGO
letsGO
11 years ago

sorry, i hope it's only a hoax, but in the past clarke's last account was deleted for a similar thing wiith surferboi by nick18, i hope her gets involved here,

aray520
aray520
11 years ago

Do your research mike, I'm sure you know how to do it. from what i can tell it very well could be a hoax.

11 years ago

just to point out that user --cas92--- is yuckin it up over the situation involving surferboi. if he thinks this is a hoaks, fine. but to act openly like a major dick is terrible. he is a low class indivual at best,,

11 years ago

im sat beside him on a chair in the hospital,using his laptop. im stuck between this,facebook,myspace and a couple of others. is that ok? do i have to check with you first? Theres always one who has to be insensitive and a cunt about sensitive things. like my best friend after loosing his head. i dont care what u believe. im sorry for deciding to keep people he talks to updated on how hes doing. Once hes ok,im gonna be delting this page. because i dont see the point in me having. sorry i love my friend. Doctors and police dont think his injuries were caused by somoene and it was self harm. so that makes me and my friends feel a bit better. looks like hel be kept in a physicward for a few days in a couple of days time. fml :(

11 years ago

If this is indeed real then I guess we can all expect to be hearing from the authorities soon as we are all suspects. We have all posted on the blogs and "talked" with Jay and thus any of us could be involved. So guys if Indeed this is real get ready, if you are not out of the closet be ready to get outed. If you have ,"bad" stuff on your hard drive get ready to be caught. again if this is a real kidnapping and not a prank

11 years ago

Hmmmm why are you spending time on a porn site rether than out looking for or consoling your friend then? Hmmmmm. Seems if I had a friend that had been through this kind of trauma the last thing I would be doing would be blogging on a porn site. I would be at his side day and night not on my computer