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turn offs

scotty96 Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 1.9K views 64 comments
Theres this little box on everybodys profile that asks you to list your *turn offs*

If you can't figure out a way to answer that without putting people down because of their age or race or body shape or because they are not what you consider *masculine*, then please do not invite me to be your friend. Prejudiced people are a turn off for me.

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nate88
nate88
11 years ago

Go Job Scotty. Many may not meen to offend but we should always think about what we type before hitting that 'ENTER' button. Thanks for the blog - Andy

11 years ago

I think that the question would be more appropriate on a dating site than on here. If you were specifically looking for hook ups you would be on Adult friend finder or something. Here we are friends and family not whores looking for one nighters

JustinThyme
JustinThyme
11 years ago

Bravo!! Scotty!!! I am with you 1000000% on that. Prejudice has no place in my life or the lives of people who say they are my friends.

11 years ago

Thank you Scotty no one could say it better.

hornyguyva
hornyguyva
11 years ago

Besides, I like all kinds of people, as long as they aren't rude, mean, liars, or bullies!!

hornyguyva
hornyguyva
11 years ago

I think it's asking what turns you on and what turns u off...It doesn't have to be physical attractions, it could be personality traits or anything. And it's not really saying that your going to be rude to someone or prejudice against them... it's their just not going to turn you on... doesn't mean you cant still be friends... :)

11 years ago

I agree totally Scotty. Theirs no room in the world for that. I think its ok to list ur turn offs based on character traits. Not your to old to fat to hairy and so on. Don't judge a book by its cover or, the first chapter. Keep reading and you might learn something. ~Brian~

steesbratt
steesbratt
11 years ago

I find it very shallow if you only want to talk to people you are physically attracted to, not to mention what great people you will miss out on getting to meet or talk with on here if you reject people for their physical looks. I just ask that you are a nice person not rude or offensive after that my friend list is open to anyone...Stees xx

11 years ago

I agree ceque said Scotty.
Because in my life, I was a victim of discrimination, rejection reports to my disability.
I reached 45, I realize that physically, it is increasingly hard.
I live alone, very alone, I suffer from not having comforts, friends who I can count.
Here, I found comfort, friends of all ages, from several countries, all conditions ...
It is my wealth, comfort.

tiaans79
tiaans79
11 years ago

While there are certain types that draw my attention every so often I find beauty in what I would not normally see myself being attracted to. I have seen old guys, hairy guys and fat guys who I have found attractive although I would not say I am normally attracted to these types. Being friends with someone and liking them for their personality (sounds cliched I know) it what makes for a lasting relationship.

tiaans79
tiaans79
11 years ago

While there are certain types that draw my attention every so often I find beauty in what I would not normally see myself being attracted to. I have seen old guys, hairy guys and fat guys who I have found attractive although I would not say I am normally attracted to these types. Being friends with someone and liking them for their personality (sounds cliched I know) it what makes for a lasting relationship.

11 years ago

9% of the gay population is black so anyon who say "no blacks" is prejudced and evil. I reckon a hell of a lot more than 9% of gay guys are not into camp girly fems - but being prejudced againt the peeps who hate fems is ok hahahaha (being prejudced is relly bad - except when u do it) ;) :P

11 years ago

Prejudiced people are a turn off for me 2. ill b a friend with any1. as long as they r not creepy/stalker or sumthing like that I will b any1s friend :) ty scotty :) luv u

okierob
okierob
11 years ago

Thank you Scotty. I have been overweight all my life. People made fun of me in school and still make fun of me. I hated it then and I hate it now. I don't like meeting new people in the real world or on line. I know when most guys find out I am over weight, they will delete me or never talk to me again. So whats the use to meeting new friends.

11 years ago

Turn offs are a matter of personal taste.If people list what they like and dont like its just been honest not prejudice.would it be better for them to be all P.C and sensitive to others or just tell the truth?I'd rather the truth from someone atleast then you know where you stand with them,,

chrish1994
chrish1994
11 years ago

some people can just say stupid things some times and some of them are fake

11 years ago

wow rob!!! did a key get stuck?

11 years ago

Wow Rob, I get your point!

rob4u2b04
rob4u2b04
11 years ago

ha ha ha ha well said dude.....I'm an old dude and I always se that thing about "NO OLDIE'S/ old fart's/ antiques/...so I'm not fat...but I laugh them off...because I am soooo fukkin cool it's not true...I always seem to end up friending youngsters rather that guy's my own age ( who I must tell you generally are so fukkin boring anyway )
But to anyone who doesnt want contact with me because of my age.....do I look like I give a shit ha ha ha ha ha ...there's always dozens of youngsters who value my company..I dunno why...maybe they all hoping I'll leave them my collection of DC Shoes and T-ee's ha ha ha ha ...or all my Eminen BEP CD's and

rob4u2b04
rob4u2b04
11 years ago

ha ha ha ha well said dude.....I'm an old dude and I always se that thing about "NO OLDIE'S/ old fart's/ antiques/...so I'm not fat...but I laugh them off...because I am soooo fukkin cool it's not true...I always seem to end up friending youngsters rather that guy's my own age ( who I must tell you generally are so fukkin boring anyway )
But to anyone who doesnt want contact with me because of my age.....do I look like I give a shit ha ha ha ha ha ...there's always dozens of youngsters who value my company..I dunno why...maybe they all hoping I'll leave them my collection of DC Shoes and T-ee's ha ha ha ha ...or all my Eminen BEP CD's and

rob4u2b04
rob4u2b04
11 years ago

ha ha ha ha well said dude.....I'm an old dude and I always se that thing about "NO OLDIE'S/ old fart's/ antiques/...so I'm not fat...but I laugh them off...because I am soooo fukkin cool it's not true...I always seem to end up friending youngsters rather that guy's my own age ( who I must tell you generally are so fukkin boring anyway )
But to anyone who doesnt want contact with me because of my age.....do I look like I give a shit ha ha ha ha ha ...there's always dozens of youngsters who value my company..I dunno why...maybe they all hoping I'll leave them my collection of DC Shoes and T-ee's ha ha ha ha ...or all my Eminen BEP CD's and