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Well JAKERXXX, it's been over two weeks since I imparted to you the secret wisdom to finding true happiness. Have you gotten yourself some dick yet? If not, why not? If yes, oooooooh, tell us all about it and how right I was.

Thanks for the advice guys. I guess I just gotta go with my heart and let it all play out.

why label yourself? You like what you like, don't put pressure on yourself to like one thing or the other, try to enjoy all aspects of sexuality. It doesn't matter if one day you like guys then the next you like girls, as long as your true to yourself and to your partner. I was married and she knew I liked guys, we brought that into our relationship and for many years it made our relationship, but I wasn't being totally true to myself or to her. Once I was comftable with the fact that I was gay I told her how I was feeling and sadly we seperated. If I was true to myself then I would of realised I was gay years ago. My advise go with the flow

My mind works exactly the same way :/

Me thinks swiftjohn,say's it all.....

i read this: Every four to five years you change your body, your mind everything cnages until you mature. You have been going thru maturity stages. they were times of fascination and experiment until you make the decision on life and who you are.

Look on the bright side ... it doubles the chances for a date on saturday night. On a more serious note, once you've had the experience of a hard cock ejaculating in your mouth and/or in your ass, you will find that you will be thinking less and less about girls. You will find that you are far more contented and satisfied than you ever were before. And then you can sit down and watch the game with him instead of having to put up with doing girly stuff with her. Now get out there and get yourself some dick. You'll be glad you did.

It is very dirfficult to give advice as you might conclude from twiggelit"s post. My advice would be, try to meet a nice boy.

Of course I don't know what the sex with the girls was like. Was it a relationship, was it a ONS? I always feel sex more satisfying, when I feel attached to my partner, more than only being horny. I am married (to a woman) but love sex with "boys". I tried quickies and ONS but - hot as it was - I didn't enjoy it afterwards. That only happens, when I was/would be able to fall in love. So I know try to choose my lovers the same way I chose my wife or I would chose a female lover. My gay quickies left me very much unsatisfied, sometimes disgusted even, without quenching my lust for "boys".

So, when you really want to expierience sex with a boy, make your choice like you would if you wanted to get a girlfriend. Hold him, kiss him, enjoy him. When you have done so, I am pretty sure you will be able to make your choice for your future life - a married family man with part time gay needs or a gay man with straight "abilities".

i can understand you cause i was the same a few years ago.