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what is sexy to you?

scotty96 Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 888 views 12 comments
So I have this theory about what different people think is sexy, here it is. Top guys are more interested in how a guy looks than bottom guys are. Top guys care about if a guy is a certain body type or age or smooth or whatever. Bottom guys don't care as much about looks, they care more about how a guy acts, like if he is confident or dominant or whatever.
Yea i know thats a total over generalization, but just from what guys here have said and what Ive seen on this site i think maybe its true. Does anybody agree or disagree, im just wondering?

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11 years ago

I think top guys care because thay can see their partner but the bottom guys are face down in the bed being hammered from behind! LOL

johnnybegood
johnnybegood
11 years ago

I bet scotty is a crazy monkey in bed lol joking, but I bet you could be tempted by a banana or two LMAO----Johnny

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
11 years ago

right on the money rando...sadly guys keep looking for there cover boy the fantasy guy that is always seem to be just around the corner

scotty96
scotty96
11 years ago

Thanks for all the replies you guys, and i didnt really think about the versatile guys who are both tops and bottoms, i guess because im not like that myself at all, im just a bottom im pretty sure. Maybe what im thinking is weird is that the type of guy physically who turns me on the most is pretty much the total opposite of what i look like, i mean i like a guy who is tall and muscly and maybe a little hairy which seems like all the top guys are always looking for twinkie guys. Or maybe i dont know what im talking about at all which wouldnt be the first time lol.

11 years ago

i like to flip.. so.. i guess im somewhere in between.. looks are only important to me when im watching porn. its all about fantacy anyway,,right? but real life is so much different. your soul turns me on...

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
11 years ago

I think your pretty close on the subject. I am a top and you could be the hottest guy in the room but if there is no chemistry other than my cock and your hole I'm not really to interested.. with out sound like a dick I would rather have a plain ole average joe shy nerdy no 3% guy than a bottom who thinks it about his ass and nothing else.... thats just me.. give me average joe with a great smile with chemistry and you can stay be my side for ever

11 years ago

hi Scotty. Yes, to some extent looks are important. But so is a good personality. It often happens that good looking guys are just plain assholes, I know, 'cause I was in love with a good looking guy when I was younger. He treated me like shit and my life was hell. Looks don't last forever, but a good heart will shine on others forever.
You are special though - 'cause you are great looking guy AND have a wonderful heart. Hugs to you, Phil.

11 years ago

***** Scotty...you might be right...but what about those guys who are versatile...just askin'...Frankly, when I was totally a top I did care about looks, but I also cared about heart. *****

I agree with Thomas ... looks are a factor, but more important, to some of us, is the personality of the person we are in bed with. They can have a great ass, but if we don't care about them, it's an empty fuck. Nice .. but empty. So .. to answer, looks ain't everything !!

cremaster
cremaster
11 years ago

Hey Scotty, What your theory expresses are stereotypes, but there is some truth in what you say, and I think it applies mostly to guys who are just out for quick hook-ups or one-night stands. What Thomas said about heart and soul apply to those who are serious and compassionate, and thoughtful about sex. I was a top most of my life, now a bottom, so I have seen both sides of the picture. Let's face it. Most guys are here for the porn and a few kicks, but there are others that genuinely care for others. By the way, you're cute, and I love your profile page. Best regards and a hug, ...Cremaster ....... Steve

11 years ago

my sexy is young mostly. i have had ugly guys turn me on and cute guys not. it is hard to get specific. you scotty are sexy. i like guys with small hands..my dick seems bigger.lol. smaller guys are good for me. (i'm 5'9).

11 years ago

Scotty...you might be right...but what about those guys who are versatile...just askin'...Frankly, when I was totally a top I did care about looks, but I also cared about heart...When I discovered the joy of the other side...I cared about the things you mention, but I also cared about soul and heart...and of course it is always hard to write on anything you post, cuz I can't watch my typing cus I keep looking at you waving at me...Hugs....Thomas xxooxxoo

tico12
tico12
11 years ago

Scotty...your's bang on with ur theory
,cos i am a top..i like smooth cute guys
that's why not getting much....lol