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In March of this year I googled the word “Twinks” as a laugh and found a web site called Twinks Meeting Room. I clicked it, joined and found it a really nice site where I made a lot of new friends. One of those friends told me of another site, one called Slurpers smooth Boys that he belong to as well. I checked it out, joined and well the rest you know. In that amount of time since March two very special friends admitted to me that their on-line personalities were lies. My disappointment was not that they lied but that they thought they had to lie to me. We all are gay on these sites yet they had to be someone else because they thought they would be rejected by others as they would have been in the “Real” world if they came out. Nothing could be further from the truth.
All of us had the sting of rejection given to us because we are gay. Some more than others but we all know it. So it puzzle’s me why anyone would create a fake persona here. We are all the same here. We are all family as I said before. This is the one place where you can be yourself. To enjoy yourself for being who you are. There is no reason to hide behind a false curtain here. Here you’re among friends. Friends here who care about you. Friends here who can say “Ya that happened to me too. Here’s what you do”. Friends who will listen. Friends who will cry with you. Friends who will love you for you. Even friends who become more than friends.
In the time I’ve been on these sites I have made wonderful friends that I would have never made otherwise. We laughed, loved, cried and shared together. And as I said earlier some have shared the most important thing. They shared their true selves. They became themselves and not just some made up person. I love them even more for doing it. Hopefully one day they will be able to live their lives in the real world like thy live it with me here. As themselves
If your living one of these “Fantasy” lives I can only ask why. I can understand it for the real world with its prejudice and cruelty but here you will find friendship, companionship and maybe even love. Give it a try. You may find something you like and love very much.
Yourself