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Help? I had sex for the first time there with a guy and all of a sudden straight after i feel really sick
Like 30mins after i started getting sick.....Is it still just nerves or have i contracted something? im really worried. i dont wanna die of aids, cos then my family would find out. aggghhh
On the subject of AIDS, you appear to be woefully uninformed. It's highly unlikely that you got HIV from oral sex. The HIV virus is killed by both saliva and stomach acid. The only way you can get HIV from oral sex is if you have bleeding gums or open sores in your mouth. Your ignorance on the subject is behind your obsessive paranoia. In six months, get tested for HIV if that will quiet your mind but I'd be willing to bet a month's pay that you'll test negative.
Maybe you took the wrong lover. Was he just a one time pick up or a kind of friend. An understanding lover would alwas stop if you ask him to. Especially with a first timer your partner was not kind. If he was a friend he should apologize or you should drop him
My first time was painful in the beginning, the first entry so to speak. But he pulled out immedeatley when I asked him. One minute later he tried again and I was totally relaxed and felt no more pain. It was great! So, just look forward to your next time but make sure you pick the right lover.
its probably nerves or the common cold
Peeing or crapping blood is NEVER a good thing !!! I'd go see a doctor immediately. If the guy you had sex with penetrated you, did you feel a intense pain as he entered you ? It's possible you had some anal tearing which could be causing the bleeding. Of course, this will heal, but you should really have it looked at ASAP to avoid infection ! If you are concerned about discussing the cause of the bleeding with your regular doctor, then go to a walk-in clinic, or a local emergency room instead. Go now .... please.
But tell me there was blood in the toilet bowl this morning. is that normal or should i go to the doctor?????
Thanks for writing to me
Semen allergy
In rare cases, people have been known to experience allergic reactions to seminal fluids, known as human seminal plasma hypersensitivity.[24] Symptoms can be either localized or systemic, and may include vaginal itching, redness, swelling, or blisters within 30 minutes of contact. They may also include generalized itching, hives, and even difficulty breathing.
One way to test for human seminal plasma sensitivity is to use a condom during intercourse. If symptoms dissipate with the use of a condom, it is possible that a sensitivity to semen is present. Mild cases of semen allergy can often be overcome by repeated exposure to seminal fluid.[25] In more severe cases, it is important to seek the advice of a physician, particularly in the event that a couple is trying to conceive, in which case, artificial insemination may be indicated.
Scientists at Utrecht University studied the condition whereby some men "get flu-like symptoms such as feverishness, runny nose, extreme fatigue and burning eyes immediately after they ejaculate. Symptoms can last for up to week."[26] This condition is termed post orgasmic illness syndrome or POIS, and it was discovered that this stemmed from an allergy to their own semen, its effects could be cured using hyposensitization therapy or allergen immunotherapy.[26]