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Crazy, Mean exes.
I was thinking I can't be the only one on here that has had a mean or crazy ex. Everyone has to have some kind of crazy/mean story. I was in a relationship for 3 years and my ex was genuinely crazy. Really crazy. But when you love somebody you put up with the mean side and the crazy side, well I did anyway. My ex didn't seem the least bit crazy until we moved in together. I mean I expected little crazy things like not leaving the porch light on all night, grocery shopping at 11 pm, only using super unleaded gas for the car. Boy I was in for a huge suprise. Usually any arguments happened over the phone and would be taken care of over the phone also. I will always remember my first argument after we had moved in together. My ex got mad and burned my favorite picture of us and then dropped it on the floor while it was still burning. It should have clicked in my mind- this person is crazy. But it didnt. That was just the beginning of everything. The next arguments eventually led to me having my face smashed against the wall in our room, being punched, pushed, locked in the bathroom with the lights off, and spat on. I was never one to physically abuse the one I loved, I just did not do that.
One time, I had a bad day, I was tired and emotionally drained. It took all of my might to not fight back when I was pushed. I almost did and my ex saw that I almost did. My ex egged me on, told me to quit being a ***** and hit back. I snapped and did. I felt bad after, and was so guilty that I was the one aplogizing at the end.
I should have ended it there, but you do stupid things when you are in love.
My ex cheated on me, and I found out and ended it. I felt betrayed and when I started packing, the first things I moved were the precious TV's. That was my revenge in my own little way. My ex found out that I was leaving and came home from work to "beat my ass" (as I was told). I ended up leaving half my stuff there because I didnt have it in me to fight anymore. My ex took great pleasure in destroying my stuff. After of course attempting to run me down with the car while I was walking down the street to my parents house.(totally serious) I guess the message im trying to say is, if you are being hit, pushed, punched or assaulted in a relationship then you need to get out of it now. It only gets worse as time goes on. Dont be stubborn like me and think that they love you because if they loved you, they wold not hit you. I do not regret for one minute what happened because life lessons teach you amazing things. ( I should write a book huh lol.) If you read all that thank you for listening, its nice to get things out that I have held in for so long.
Danny
One time, I had a bad day, I was tired and emotionally drained. It took all of my might to not fight back when I was pushed. I almost did and my ex saw that I almost did. My ex egged me on, told me to quit being a ***** and hit back. I snapped and did. I felt bad after, and was so guilty that I was the one aplogizing at the end.
I should have ended it there, but you do stupid things when you are in love.
My ex cheated on me, and I found out and ended it. I felt betrayed and when I started packing, the first things I moved were the precious TV's. That was my revenge in my own little way. My ex found out that I was leaving and came home from work to "beat my ass" (as I was told). I ended up leaving half my stuff there because I didnt have it in me to fight anymore. My ex took great pleasure in destroying my stuff. After of course attempting to run me down with the car while I was walking down the street to my parents house.(totally serious) I guess the message im trying to say is, if you are being hit, pushed, punched or assaulted in a relationship then you need to get out of it now. It only gets worse as time goes on. Dont be stubborn like me and think that they love you because if they loved you, they wold not hit you. I do not regret for one minute what happened because life lessons teach you amazing things. ( I should write a book huh lol.) If you read all that thank you for listening, its nice to get things out that I have held in for so long.
Danny
Yes everything has made me stronger, I would rather it happened and I learn from it now than later on in my life. Sometimes its good to learn life lessons when you are young.