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johnnybegood Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 488 views 6 comments
Attracting someone#### I went out to a camping resort for a october fest weekend this past weekend. I looked around and people young and old were having a good time and I am observing the teenagers dancing near the DJ. And younger and older teens and people around my age are dressing trampy and acting like they haven't any sense. So the question is, do you believe that you have to act like a total slut or whore to attract someone or do you believe dressing nice and acting like a decent human being will have the same effect? I wanna know you opinions.

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11 years ago

it is better to be unlike for who you are rather than liked for whom you are not.

nate88
nate88
11 years ago

Always to each their own. Don't change you to be a part of the crowd. Be who you really are and those of similar taste will follow too.Just do what's comfortable for you.Good Luck, Andy

11 years ago

Unfortunately I think that seems to be the trend. I am staying in Corvallis Oregon right now with my friends and he works at Oregon State University. I went to the campus just to walk around and see where he works and I see much of the same. Girls in pajamas going (I assume) to class. Being bisexual it wouldnt bother me if they were hot but they look like they didnt even take the time to shower and wash the skank off of them. Guys that look like they are either a victorias secret model or the walking dead. I turn 25 in December, I know I was away in Iraq after high school but did I come back to the same country ( or the same earth?) Even when I was in school I would never leave in the morning without a shower and clean clothes, you never know who is going to pull your pants down and want to light up your life!

Davey1965
Davey1965
11 years ago

No you dont have to dress Trampy or act like a slut,to attract someone.Im not sure if drinking was involved there but,if those guys choose to do that,good on them.
But in your case,if you have your own Morals and choose to act like a deccent human being,
then do exactly that and dont change. Youll find a guy just as fast as them if your determined to do so. If you start to copy those guys,you wont be happy with who you meet and it wont last, because,thats not who you are.

11 years ago

Johnny...I think a person should be the person they are. Clothes are just trappings. But for me, they should represent the person I am, the person I want others to know. So, I think you should present yourself as who you are...if that is a slut or whore...fine...and if that isn't you, why would you want others to see you that way.