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School, College, Military , Health Club Showering Practices and Attitudes Where You Live.

babooy Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 838 views 11 comments
Hi guys, I really love this community here at gayboystube.com. You guys have really built something to be proud of. I'm hoping to start a discussion here, concerning this communities experiences and attitudes with the whole subject of showering practices at school, college, military, health clubs or some other arrangement, that you can enlighten us with. This discussion is open to all members, young and older. We can all learn from one another. Showering practices, attitudes or beliefs about it, have certainly changed over time and continue to evolve. I thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion, because of the diverse membership, with worldwide reach. Blessings to all.

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cremaster
11 years ago

Good subject. I'm one of the older guys on the line, just turned 70. Yikes! I went to junior high in the 50's, and high school in the late 50's. As for PE, we had big group shower rooms at both jr. and high school. Nobody seemed ashamed or scared about it, yet nobody was openly gay either, so no gay panic. I had some of my best masturbatory fantasies from those shower times. Wasn't really attracted to most of the guys, but the ones I fantasized over, OH BOY. In high school I was on the swimming team, and all our practices were held in the nude, as they were closed, but I always wondered about that underwater window and who might be looking through it. Being naked with all those swimmers sounds exciting, and it was at first, but when you see the same guys naked day after day it loses its luster after a while unless you are really attracted to a certain guy. I look back now and realize our head coach was gay, although gay wasn't spoken at that time. Also growing up I'd swim at the YMCA sometimes, and occasionally my Dad would go with me for men's swim. Everybody was always swimming naked there also. Saw quite a variety of males from young like me to guys my age now. Again, nobody seemed freaked out by it, and it was all relaxed and peaceful. I just never had a problem with it, even though I didn't realize I was bisexual, or homosexual if you want. Looking back now, it almost seems like a lost paradise. In college I wasn't on the swimming team, but nudity wouldn't have worked, as the pool had big glass windows around it so you could see anything from outside. Again, we had group showers in the dorm and at PE classes. Again, nobody seemed to mind showering naked next to another guy. I did meet some out gay guys in college but not many. Now so many people are out of the closet that it puts straight people on guard and more modesty prevails. It seems like nudity in these situations today would be widespread, but just the opposite seems to be the case, probably due to fear and loathing of gays and all this hysteria about young kids being molested, and a lawsuit happy environment. That being said, don't get the impression that I'm in favor of older guys taking sexual advantage of underage males, especially some of the ages like 8-12. That makes me kind of ill, as I have a grandson about to turn 13, and I sure wouldn't want that to happen to him. Anyway, it was fun and relaxed back then, and I still remember some of my fantasies from that time.

11 years ago

I remember when I was in high school I always got so excited at the beginning of the year to see what guys were in my gym class. I knew that I would be getting to see there cocks as we all had to shower after class. I wasn't in any sports so this was my only chance to see some other boy's dicks. I did have to watch that I would not stare to long because I did not want to get caught looking and be called a fag. I would always try to get a set of lockers on the end, that way I could see the entire class going in and out of the showers and also getting dressed. I still enjoy the locker room today when working out at the local gym. I like to take my time drying off so if anyone wants to take a look they can and I like to look around too at the other guys while I am in there dressing and undressing.

11 years ago

I used to have a t-shirt that said 9 is fine. most of the people I had fucked knew what it meant, some of the girls blushed. The guys just smiled, one math teacher threw me out of his class because I had deflowered his daughter

11 years ago

My cock is 7 inches soft and tends to arch outward, I tend to get looks in any shower room. I also tend to get dates in the shower easily. In highschool it grew to full size in my freshman year so shortly after my first month in gymn rumors were flying around. The football guys hated me cause I put them to shame. I also knew who all the gay guys in school were because seemed like suddenly all their lockers in gymn moved over by mine. Much fun was had in those four years. Many sex sessions both gay str8 and bi in those hallowed halls of education. I think I am the only person to get busted fucking the assistant principal two weeks after graduation in her office!

babooy
11 years ago

Thanks guys for posting with your experiences. My experience in Jr and Sr High School goes back to the 70's. Back in those days I was deeply in the closet, and highly emotionally conflicted about my gay desires. Since I was an active sports jock I had an ample supply of naked jock eye candy to fuel my masturbatory pleasures. Since being in 3 sports plus gym class, showers were required and it was all in the open. My memories of those times, was that no one ever expressed any fear of being naked. or gays may be amongst us. It seemed that my main concern was the pressure, not to get hard while showering next to my dream guys. Showering at school was a common practice and I certainly looked forward to that everyday. Since we have people of different generations in GBT.com and spread out across the planet. We have wealth of practical experiences, from the youngest to the oldest in our group. Some of the older members can testify to the fact that school swim classes
and YMCA swimming was done in the nude(same sex.) I never had the pleasure to have experienced this. I know that times have certainly changed. Hopefully some of our younger members can relate to the group whats happening these days across America and wherever else you care share about. It would be interesting to see the differences in cultures with this topic. Thanks again guys, time to hit the showers.

11 years ago

I remember too well the first time I took a shower with my hockey teammates when I was 11. It was a great pleasure to watch the guys for me then and I always enjoyed it in all the years I played. In fact, as i grew older, I was more enjoying taking showers than play the game itself... I knew then I was attracted to guys ;-)

11 years ago

Just before I entered high school, I had a kidney infection. I recovered quickly but my family doctor kept me out of P.E. while I was in high school. I missed the group showers, which meant I didn't get to see what my friends looked like showering. I also missed out on getting an erection in front of my friends when I got to see what my friends looked like showering. Sort of a fair trade-off. In college, I would go to the gym to workout, and shower there. It was also group showers. I just had to really, really concentrate to keep from getting an erection in the showers.

11 years ago

I hated the showers at school. They were just one big room. I am a grower and not a shower...so I was always embarrassed by the big ones swinging around. And growing up in a small town, while I really wanted to look, I didn't want anyone to call me queer..cuz I knew I was one..but I was afraid...and frankly even though I am a grower...it ain't gonna grow all that big...not that anyone has ever complained...but it did create body image issues for me growing up...

11 years ago

we never showered in school, but i had spent time at a Y that had private and community showers. i always used the public shower as i was used to the family sharing one bath at home. summer camp was also an open shower at the pool. some of my worst memories because i was late starting puberty. when i did i ended up at 15 having oral sex with a 18 year old counselor who showered with us and saw my enthusiasm.

when i got to college we had a dorm with 3 private showers and 6 shower heads in a community shower. i loved it, but there were guys who would wait in line for a private shower. i see how it has become somewhat sexual to shower, but athletes do it all the time. our society is way too homophobic!

11 years ago

When I was in school we used to shower together after gymn class, I dont care what anyone said you always checked out the other guys dicks. We called it checking out the competition. Some had teeny peters some had monsters. I always thought it strange how some guys dicks even back then just got hard and some guys dicks would shrink up then grow when they got hard. Never understood why. I know it was also real embarrising when some of the younger guys hadent gotten hair everywhere yet, back in my day body hair was a rite of passage. The kids who has peach fuzz got picked on by the gorilla boys

11 years ago

I've always thought it was weird that straight guys take showers together like we did after gym class in high school. I mean I think it's hot to be naked in front of a bunch of other guys. I just never understood how some of the boys I went to school with who were so homophobic could run around naked with other boys. One time I remember showering and the water was streaming off the end of my dick and I guess it looked like I was peeing. So this other dude, who was straight and a football player asked me if I was pissing. I said no but I wondered what the hell he was doing staring at my dick.