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Gay Retirement Homes

Davey1965 Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 479 views 4 comments
I recently read a Newspaper story on Gay Retirement Homes and i didnt know they existed.
In my Country it is a Totally new concept.
A group of ageing gays say they want to be able to retire among their peers, instead of facing potential discrimination in traditional, heterosexual rest homes.
The proposal at this stage is in its infancy, but may eventually result in the group buying units in an apartment building, sharing a swimming pool and garden, and hiring a care worker or "houseboy" to live in the complex.
Spokesman Mike Keegan said the village was first mooted after the community heard about a group of gay women who were also considering a retirement home.

"The lesbians were looking at the concept. So we said if the lesbians can do it why can't the gay guys do it?" he said.

A survey conducted by the group of 60 gay men found 100 per cent would prefer a retirement lifestyle choice other than what was currently available.
According to a 2010 report by the US elder gay group SAGE, many gay and lesbian people grow old without the support of family, they are twice as likely to live alone and that nursing homes often failed to protect gay men and lesbians from hostile treatment by staff or other patients.
Retirement village living was predominantly a lifestyle choice so it was important the atmosphere was conducive to a resident's happiness.
It said that there popular in the US and i think that,there a good idea.
Has any one here thought ahead that far and might consider a Gay Retirement Home.
The thought of moving into a Retirement home, when, i absolutely, needed to, would be much nicer if i was around Men that had a similar Background.

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11 years ago

In Santa Fe, NM, there is a gay retirement community. I know that there have been ongoing management issues so I would not recommend it. http://www.rainbowvisionsantafe.com/

11 years ago

Thnk its a great idea. Can just imagine it - lots of 75 year old gay men all sitting around the recreation room at the retirement home, wrapped up with rugs and watching a troupe of 19 year old strippers entrtaining them. After that singalongs of Donna Summer and George Michael songs, followed by some Chad Knight films.

Davey1965
11 years ago

The Idea of the Ageing in PLace sounds like a really good idea,and would be great for if family and friends live near by.I think many gay men who are getting older would prefere to live at home were they feel more comfortable and have there partner looked after by local Home help or Daily nurse visits. Also if one partner was younger and not ready yet to move into a retirement home,he could still be at his partners side.
The subject of Multable Economic Groups is interesting because i wouldnt want to see these developments as only accessible by the wealthy and some groups missing out.
I think if a trust was set up.Then anyone wishing to gift donations or leaving funds in there wills could help out the trust,thus increasing the likly hood of all Economic groups being catered for.

11 years ago

Our local LGBT center is partnering with SAGE on this very issue. There have been a couple of attempts to move forward on the development of such a project. One of the difficulties here, is trying to insure that what is developed can be available across multiple economic groups. Retirement living can and is very expensive. Also, is the development going to be a total care facility. i.e. Independent Living, Assisted Living and Nursing care...it is very complex, but it is an important topic. The data is very frightening about LGBT seniors and final year living. Being a tad older than you, we have discussed it. My partner has health issues and we do not see our 16 year old cat providing the necessary support in our more golden years. There are also some organization developing to support in place retirement living. i.e. services being brought to where you live so that you do not have to change residences or locations...it is referred to as aging in place.