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First Time Anal Sex

curiousguywa Blog Last Activity 12 years ago 1.4K views 6 comments
Hello all. Am looking forward to my first gay sex experience, but I am curious about how exactly you prepare for it. I've seen a lot of videos on this site of guys having sex. I understand the mechanics of it, but how do you address the issue of a cock in your ass, considering what is usually trying to come out of your ass. Not really sure of a delicate way to ask this, so I'll just come right out and ask. How do you make sure that when you have sex with someone, you won't have shit on your dick when you pull it out. Would seem to be a real mood killer. Sorry if this was offensive. This "issue" is what's really holding me back from taking the "plunge". Appreciate your helpful responses.

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neuneu
12 years ago

It worries me too, I found the following solution:
with an enema bulb or a hose shower hose sprinkler without the apple;-) I lavage abundant, Matier feces evacuated and I'm sure my partner's cock come out intact
hoping to have you helped and you want a treat.

12 years ago

Another excellent book is "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men" by Bill Brent. The author devotes one chapter to Hygiene and Diet, both important factors in enjoyable anal sex with minimum risk of having poo on the penis.

12 years ago

clean it out with a douch.

12 years ago

You might also want to check out Jack Morin's book "Anal Pleasure and Health." There's a chapter available free online on Morin's website that covers a little bit about douching and getting started. The table of contents is also available.

http://www.jackmorin.com/MyBooks.en.html

12 years ago

Everyone has their different opinions, but when I'm going for anal (giving or receiving) I would:
1. Go to the toilet at least 10-15 mins b4 you're about to do the sex
2. wipe back their with a wet towel or other cloth (get extra squeaky clean!)
3. Maybe put a wet finger up there, make sure its all clean clean clean.
4. Finally if you have had toilet issues, (stomach pains, dioreah etc) I wouldn't do the bumsex, suggests it could go wrong.
5. IF substance occurs (which can't always be prevented 110%) then don't freak out because it can really kill the other persons confidence when you have both tried to stop that from happening. Just be calm, and go clean yourself up. Simples.

SmoothSeduction
12 years ago

Ideally, you should wear a condom. Safe sex is not jut for hetero couples. Too many people die from AIDS when it can be prevented. Some people may give themselves an enema before engaging in anal sex for cleanliness and safety. You still may get some on your dick but that's a chance you'll have to take. Be safe and good luck!