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SMALL TOWNS - I RECKON YA GOT IT ALL WRONG

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I hear from lots of gay guys who live in small towns or in the country how closted they hav to be and how there are no gay dudes for miles around.

I thnk they are all wrong.

I reckon what ya should be doing is exctly the opposite - instead of being closted or 'careful' ya shiould be more visible more in ya face.
If you are the most well known homosexual in town - you will attrct all the gays like a magnet!

You mark my words - let evryone know you are gay, horny, and happy to root almost anyone - you will end up with the guys lining up outside the door.

The guys in the cities going to clubs are wrose off than you cause they have lots of competition - lots of guys younger and better looking than them to compete with -but the small twon boys have it all to themselves.

Now for any of you small town/country boys reading this blog, rolling ya eyes and thinking 'wtf??' - let me ask u this: how succesful have ya been so far in getting laid? how successful has doing the opposite to my advice been?

(in other wrods - ya tried evrything else without success - getting laidwise - so it mus logically follow i am right)

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11 years ago

I am kind of with the professor...and I will admit that times have changed in much of the world. But I grew up in a little village of 500 people...chances were pretty good that there was only me and maybe one other gay boy....and in fact that was nearly true...and he was a mean boy...And even today, I know of parts of the US where small town life is not conducive to being out...in any way...around some parts...you aren't going to get some hot love action...you are going to get some mean nasty ass whooping...and not the fun kind.

11 years ago

I am kind of with the professor...and I will admit that times have changed in much of the world. But I grew up in a little village of 500 people...chances were pretty good that there was only me and maybe one other gay boy....and in fact that was nearly true...and he was a mean boy...And even today, I know of parts of the US where small town life is not conducive to being out...in any way...around some parts...you aren't going to get some hot love action...you are going to get some mean nasty ass whooping...and not the fun kind.

11 years ago

Being raised in a small farming community with the quintessential RED NECK ( do you know that the phrase red kneck came from the fact that the man worked out in the fields all day and had a sun tanned or burned neck. I didnt till someone told me. Of course now it means something else) ANyway I knew when I was growing up that I was always attracted to guys. There were enough good ole boys in cowboy boots and hats in high school (kind of like on the original footloose movie without the dancing) who would have stuck a baseball bat up my ass had I even given a hint of my desires.Yes It was hell but you cannot change the town that doesnt want to be changed. There were a few of us who hooked up from time to time but very few. You want to shout it from the roof tops, wear kevlar. You and your family will suffer. Not saying its right wrong but that is simply the way it is. To invoke change you must have support in the community. In the town I grew up in population 823 a gay boy would have been taken to the penecostal church for re-education and a emergency prayer meeting. They would all have started speaking in tongues and rolling on the floor in the holy spirit ( really scary shit) . I'm glad I got out of there and went to Med school and now live in a big city with people in the 21st century. I have not been home in over 20 years

11 years ago

When you say that it sounds good but you probably have never lived in a small town in Idaho. It is not safe to be different in anyway. People get hurt just because someone might just look gay. Maybe you have never heard the story about Matthew Sheperd. That was really the worst case of all but that is the way people treat gays here if they are open. I am just not that brave.

Jamie

11 years ago

Well well, a man with a bit of common sense. You are of course VERY correct. I know because I lived in a village for about 8 years. When I returned from living in the USA my flat had been repo by the bank, so I was homeless. I went to live with my mum and stepfather in a small village in Aberdeenshire. Word soon got out that I was gay and I did nothing to stop the stories. And as you say Damien, most of the younger gays and bi's made it obvious what they wanted. However a lot of the older closets, those who had married kept quite. I suppose they had family to worry about and rightly so. I'm not boasting or anything but I reckon I had "friendships" with 13 or 14 guys when I lived there. Mostly guys in their teens but 5 who were in their early 20's. Some boys made moves on me when they were too young, I told them to wait a few years. Most of them did and we got together eventually. Two fathers in the village who had young sons made in clear what they would do to me if I didn't KEEP AWAY from their sons. LOL, as if they ever did. Two mothers who have gay sons defended their sons sexuality in the local pub a few years ago and EVERYONE was put in their place and told NEVER to pick on gays. I can tell you now, that village is very gay friendly, I have no issues when I return to visit my mother. Nor do any of the other gays.

Davey1965
Davey1965
11 years ago

lol ANDY....You Horney again.Kept it in your pants boy...lol
Fuck me, Damien THe guys in small towns have to stay quiet
because if they shout it from the roof tops ,the whole damm town will know.....

nate88
nate88
11 years ago

Hi 'D' - WOW! you gotta be horney for this Blog ??? Silly Boy :-)