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need some advice
so a couple days ago a close friend of mine came out to me on facebook. i had no idea he was also gay. i have never had any romantic thoughts towards him before, mostly because i was sure he was straight and didn't want to hurt our friendship. but tonight he sent me another message, saying that he has feelings for me. now i am confused i'm still not sure if i have romantic feelings towards him, but we have been friends for over 9 years now and i can't think of anyone that i am closer to. i don't want to risk a great friendship but i also don't know if i want to close any romantic doors with him. can anyone offer some advice here?
best of luck anyway!
Russ.
He obviously has feelings for you but you dont for him. I think you have to be honest in your answer to him but try not to upset him with your answer.He may have dreamt of being with
you for many years and it could break his heart.
It would be so sad if your friendship broke up because of this situation but who knows,you could develope some feelings for him. So keep that door open for the moment.
Good luck.