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thnks guys i will try it

wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what about analeaze? would that help?

what about analeaze? would that help?

what about analeaze? would that help?

what about analeaze? would that help?

what about analeaze? would that help?

what about analeaze? would that help?

As others have said, anything penis shaped can help you relax for the big moment but the key is be relaxed. It really only hurts if your tense.

What others have said, plus I like lots of play (fingers, tongue) ahead of time to get me really turned on. It helps me to be *really* turned on as well as relaxed if he's bigger than what I'm used to. That might mean hot porn, toys, or whatever gets you going.

thnks guys

U gotta start slow and easy. A partner who like fingers u with 1, then 2, the stretches u with 3 and a LOT of lube is mandatory. If u have like a cock sized toy, u can use that 2 get used 2 the feeling of having something in u. Also, if u kno, or think ure gonna hav a guy do u, u can use the dildo a couple of hours before to get u loosened up. It make it SOOOO much easier

The more you can relax your anal sphincter muscles before and as the Top enters you, the less likely you're experience pain and the more likely you'll enjoy it. On your own, you can try fingering yourself like when you're in the shower or you can use a butt plug or dildo to help you get used to something entering rather than exiting your 'boyhole'. Also, try to make sure you've had a bowel movement fairly recently so you're not keeping your anal sphincter muscles tight. Ideally, you should be able to 'push' very gently like you're trying to poop as the Top enters you. If you've had a recent bowel movement and push 'gently' there should be no issues. Just as important, the Top needs to take his time and make sure you're as relaxed as possible before he attempts to enter you. A good lube is also very important. With most condoms you need a water based lube, but those often do not last. A great lube is Albolene Moisturizing Cleanser (unscented). It is sold in the US in most big drug stores like Walgreens, CVS and Rite-Aid. It is the best lube I've ever encountered. Goes on easy, lasts a long time and easy to clean up. It can be used with Durex Avanti condoms, but not with latex condoms. Most important to having a good experience as a Bottom is being relaxed about it in your own mind.