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How do you feel about incest?

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Just a general survey, what do you think about incest?

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swiftjohn
7 years ago

I've always been of the opinion that whatever two consenting adults, regardless of who they are and what their relationship is, do in private is nobody else's business but theirs - especially not the state's. The key phrase here is "consenting adults". It would be rather hypocritical of me to condemn or criminalize other people's private sexual practices when the sexual practices of gay men were once criminalized. Only up until recently I could have been thrown in jail in Texas for fucking another man. The prohibition of incest comes out of the heterosexual world where it's roots go back to biblical times where women were considered property. The patriarch owned the mother and daughters and the sons better not mess with his property. When Lot fled Sodom with his wife and 3 daughters and his wife was turned into a pillar of salt, what did Lot do? He fucked his 3 daughters - no problem at all like it was a perfectly natural thing for him to do and he had every right. There is, however, a legitimate, practical reason for the prohibition against incest and that is eugenics - see: Deliverance - kid with banjo. But with modern contraception, that problem is easily avoided. So my bottom line on the topic is that I won't tell you who you can and can't have sex with if you don't tell me who I can and can't have sex with. As long as two people want each other and they are consenting adults and happy together, then they should have each other without any criticism or interference of others. If it works for them then they should go for it.

7 years ago

Of all the many types of incest, the only one vaguely acceptable is probably between consenting brothers or cousins of similar age and even then, there are most likely going to be issues later in life. Boys are always going to play sexual games with one another whether they are brothers or not, so even calling it incest is drawing a long bow. 

7 years ago

@PMPEDChillen: difficult to grasp how you appear to have misinterpreted my word 'minors'. Teachers and his/her adult students engaging in consensual sex does not feature in this discussion as far as I can see. Nor do I support any arguments by those you label 'radical puritans' or Christian Jihad ['Jihad' surely a misnomer applied to Christians!] who are opposed to these cases. In fact, relatively few people are concerned with what consenting adults do in private.

RobbietheRobot
7 years ago

Vice is nice, but incest is best! ;-P

7 years ago

I often dreamed to have a twin brother with the same feelings and we could have fun so i think it's OK between brothers or cousins of same age range but never between boy/girl or older/younger. I never had a brother, so i only had my own hand and a lot of dirty fantasies.

7 years ago

If done in the course of educating family members about sex, I believe it ought to be acceptable. Who better to teach you how to get the most out of an orgasm than the man who created you. Science has discovered that everybody living today can be traced back to a single ancestor; therefore, any way you want to look at it having sex with anyone is incest. The word itself is interchangeable with the word insist. People who insist upon something are usually confessing their affinity for incest. Although the same educational latitude ought to extend to the Mother, that would tend to create problems between both parents and should only be done in a single parent situation. All boys love their Mothers, and all girls love their Fathers regardless of the hoards of liars who deny it, incest is rampant in our society.

7 years ago

Many views below, some utterly opposed to 'incest' between relatives of any degree whatever, no matter how close or distant. However [and leaving aside how the word is used as a tag on porn videos] there's surely a need to draw a clear distinction between sexual abuse of minors by parents, close older relatives or those in authority [teachers, youth leaders etc], wrong by any civilised standard, and the endless variations of sexual adventure [mutual masturbation, BJs, attempts at anal, to name but a few] which are well known to have long been taking place between cousins and occasional brothers. Do all these latter goings-on really deserve to be classed as 'incest' with its dire implications of long-lasting guilt and other damaging consequences? Any views on this?

FrankGr
7 years ago

Well yeah..with my older nephew back in the days..and that was pretty exciting! But futher i think if i had sex adventures with my dad/mom/uncle etc i almost puke..its wrong..thank god there is internet for satisfy ;)

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

Mr. Peter Pickles, what a perfect statement! And Koshisigre, hopefully we're on the same boat with thoughts ;) This issue is not a joke!

11 years ago

Anyone who thinks its hot should look into the cases and cases of therapy and adult trauma that the hotness causes later in life. Usually the people who think its "Hot" are either kids, or people who are fixated on children and this fantasy gives them a thrill. Incest is a no win situation that can and will ruin your relationship with your family. Especially when your "dirty little secret" comes out to your parents later in life and believe me it will. Look at the case studies 90% of the time it does and the family never recovers

koshisigre
11 years ago

BackStreetBoy I know what you mean.

koshisigre
11 years ago

BackStreetBoy I know what you mean.

jagain569
11 years ago

im currently dating a boy with a identical twin brother.. someone brought it up one day and hes sssooouupper against the stuff ahah

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

thanks Koshisigre... I'm not victim of incest but every time i hear ot read the "word" I feel shivers in my spine. And not good ones...sex and sex industry use it as commercial tag. to make people interested in. same as if upload a video and name it as "In Cellar with Uncle" (as I did)... just fantasy but nothing to do with real life. hopefully.

koshisigre
11 years ago

BackStreetBoy If a child is forced into it, that crosses a line NO human should ever cross, and that is rape.

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

What do you think about those who are forced into incest? Mostly as a child by father or mother? Cannot defense. Carrying those childhood "memories" rest of their lives.
Not talking about boys "plays" together inside family when 10-> years, that's quite normal and not causing (normally) lifetime traumas.

filex
11 years ago

I don't agree with it, but each to there own!

Tyrone22
11 years ago

That's your opinion

11 years ago

the big problem is you feel differently about it when you are an adult and your little secret becomes a issue between you and your sibling and now your life partner. When you are kids you just think about getting off and nothing else, but when you get togetrher as adults and perhaps have kids of your own and see that sibling and remember fucking them now you wonder if your kids are doing the same and you begin to feel bad feelings toward that sibling. Its a typical family disfunction when incest is involved.

Tyrone22
11 years ago

hond1: having it as your dirty little secret is what makes it so HOT

11 years ago

Outright gross if its a brother. It'd be your dirty little secret for the rest of your lives.