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hey b, they are had to cum by, at least in my experience, i fell into my 1st when i moved in as roomates, he was str8? lol, we lived together for 3 years sharing each others beds, ( no friends knew), he left NY for FLA, i still miss him, you never know when it'll happen, bri

Lol It sounds so simple. I only came out a few years ago. So Its all new to me. Thats why I'm hear to get some advice from guys that know what im talking about. I just get frustrated a little. I wants things to happen fast. Thank u for answering my post. It means a lot to me to hear what people have to say. :)) ~Brian~

Well then stop hanging around with straight guys and being in their straight world. You're not going to find anyone like minded as long as you hang around in their world. You don't belong there and will alway be an outsider. So what if they're good looking, you're not going to get to fuck them and they're not going to fuck you so why waste your time with them. Demote them from friends to acquaintances and start moving into the gay world where you belong. Only there will you find that which you seek. And since when are hook-ups a bad thing? They're great for taking the edge off while you're looking for something more permanent although you should insist he wear a condom if you're going to bottom for him. Sooner or later you'll find someone it the gay world who's right for you. When you do, go get tested and if everything is ok, then then enjoy gay sex the way it's best enjoyed - bareback.

I hear ya. Maybe that's what I should try doing. Thanx Mike :)=

gay bar.....thats where the gay people meet...not bein a wise guy...try it..

Sounds non-caring but this things take time. Maybe 'just a hookup'is where it starts. GOOD LUCK