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Looking for some guidance/ advice about Bondage.

Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 635 views 13 comments
I know this is a pretty strange post, sorry :P But I've been curious about this for a long time and felt like this would be an ok place to post a question or two about such things.

I've been interested in Bondage from a pretty young age and now that I'm at college and away from my parents I'm looking to experiment. My first time with a guy was semi related to bondage so I think that's why I'm interested but apart from that I've never really had experience with Bondage so I'm looking for some help.
I recently seen a video with a guy wearing a chastity device and was wondering if that'd be a good place to start experimenting, the idea really gets me boned (I know its strange), I think I'm more of a sub but I can get excited about taking control too.
I guess I'm asking, where should I start. I like the idea of being tormented, MAYBE a little pain but I just honestly don't know.....you can probably tell I'm a little confused on what I want which doesn't help of course, sorry :S

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11 years ago

I've seen this post several times and every time I do all sorts of warning bells go off in my head, so much so that I have to respond. Unless you are with someone you know, and have known for quite some time, it can be very, very dangerous. Being tied up, you are completely at the mercy of your partner. There are some very sick people out there who would think nothing of harming and/or killing you. Safety words are cool, but only to someone you know and trust. Please give this alot of thought. I hate rain on your parade, but I would'nt want you to be hurt. Please be safe!!!

11 years ago

its cool, bro. I didn't think anyone was disrespecting me or anything. its a...'different' post to say the least :P haha so a bit of a laugh wasn't a surprise :)
But thanks for posting that, it was nice of you.

steesbratt
11 years ago

I dont think anyone meant any disrespect to your post illusion just a little light hearted fun with all the bad negative and fake stuff that has been posted here lately you just provided a little break from the drama hope you got the answers you wanted we all need to lighten up after all the fake drama that is going around best wishes... Stees xx

Davey1965
11 years ago

Where here to encorage Members to Post there thoughts and questions,and just
remember,we were all young once and had to experiment and try new things.
So glad your less Insecure Now buddy xoxo

11 years ago

Thanks, Davey. Feeling a little less insecure about the post :P haha

11 years ago

I use a safety word too, just like Nate88 below. My word is my surname and we both agree to use it if things get too rough. It's an automatic STOP.

Davey1965
11 years ago

I dont think it was a weird post, Bondage is a popular subject.

11 years ago

hahaha, well guys, thanks for the puns :P I guess lmao

but in all seriousness thanks for replying, I know it was a weird post :P

And thanks to everyone who took the post kind of seriously :D, I do really do appreciate it.

11 years ago

i'm tied up at the moment...maybe later..

11 years ago

better to use the pink padded handcuffs, feels nicer on the wrist, well so I am told.

Davey1965
11 years ago

Sorry to see Not much advice in yr blog,I thought thed be more here into Bondage.
I would learn what you can on some good Quality Bondage sites and just start of
slowly with simple hands and Ankles.Once your comfortable with this and yr partner
is, you could try New things yrve read about.A good Sex Shop could offer some
advice and Products as well. Have Fun 8-)

nate88
11 years ago

Have a SAFETY WORD which means STOP. For me, I'm not in to it but have FUN!

steesbratt
11 years ago

I would love to answer your questions but i am a bit tied up right now I will get back to you later