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lvlads Blog Last Activity 10 years ago 1.6K views 29 comments
hi why is it that guys find it hard to take when a guy says he likes a friendship with a lad it dosent mean that he is only after his body i have had real good friends that was teens and we didnt do anything but they felt safe and felt great to to talk to an older guy who could answer their qustions. so what do pepole think is it wrong for older guys wanting to have a friendship with a young lad????? let me know.

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Domono1
10 years ago

Basically most men (not all) are thinking about sex most of the time. I can relate to your problem because I too love making friends that I respect with all my heart. To my disappointment most of them where only after sex. I'm very straight forward when I meet someone I like as a friend . I will tell them upfront what's up so I don't mislead them only to find out otherwise it was sex:(. I am very picky about who I am intimate with. sorry but I was brought up in a christian household. My advise to you is if you find someone who truly is a friend no matter what age or color cherish that friendship, F*** what everyone else thinks they are only jealous

nate88
10 years ago

Don't loose track of a 'key' word here. It's "FRIENDSHIP" - I have several 'older' friend and they give me guidance and support. NONE have ever made any sexual advances and I relish their friendship and feel FORTUNATE that they take the time to CARE. Friendships are a personal choice and decision.
HUGS!!!!!!!!! Andy XXX

10 years ago

Hi well, I guess that makes you look way too much thought about the age ... Unfortunately, one is by education and society as influenced and probably influenced that sometimes you lose sight of what is essential and can lose ... namely whether it sparks between two people or they do not. And if it sparks, chemical suits, it complements, has something to say ... then age does not matter, at least that it should ...

seadog
10 years ago

There is this internet site Silverdaddies.com that is for "Dads" and "Admirers". I don't know if older and younger are hooking up much, but there is an attraction, both ways, that gives men of all ages what they may prefer in a sex partner OR friend.

guynflint
11 years ago

sorry, i was feeling a bit pissy this morning when i wrote that..

guynflint
11 years ago

its still all about the old question...... can two gay guy really be friends? i mean.....friends. there will always be that hidden agenda thing goin on.. we all know the older wants a piece of that. it's just a fantacy..but its there!! no1 wants to admit it!

Undieboyluvr
11 years ago

It is a very complex subject out here in the US becuz there are many pedos out here. I am friends with many young boys. I even coach football baseball and basketball. I enjoy it and they do learn a lot. I will never do nothing to hurt them but I also dont let them like hug me or anything bcuz many people do got ugly minds and they think wrong.. Its just the way society is now that so many priest and high officials have been caught hurting young boys... I also have 2 young boys age 9 and 10 that are brothers and they love to come over my house to play my ps3, catch or just hang out.. We have a good relationship and I wouldnt want anything to happen to them..

Undieboyluvr
11 years ago

It is a very complex subject out here in the US becuz there are many pedos out here. I am friends with many young boys. I even coach football baseball and basketball. I enjoy it and they do learn a lot. I will never do nothing to hurt them but I also dont let them like hug me or anything bcuz many people do got ugly minds and they think wrong.. Its just the way society is now that so many priest and high officials have been caught hurting young boys... I also have 2 young boys age 9 and 10 that are brothers and they love to come over my house to play my ps3, catch or just hang out.. We have a good relationship and I wouldnt want anything to happen to them..

lvlads
11 years ago

one lad i used to know was 16 years old i was 35 he was alonley lad who was being beaten by his dad he used to come to my house to fell safe i never touched him but other kids around his area used to say he was gay they did not know about his dad just that he was seen leaving my house one morning he could not take anymore so he ended his life no one knew i was gay were we lived but just because i lived alone pepole assumed that we was having sex. if it wasnt for the rumours he would still be here today has i nearly was getting him to report his dad to the police.

11 years ago

Hmm...well uptil now whilst following the comments it occurs to me that this is a comlex subject...maybe too much for GBT...possibly...as I mentioned this is what GBT is all about in the whole...I'm reading the comments and I am very convinced that the writers are confident in what they are expressing.....these are the members which GBT can build on....I would love to read more....great stuff...(°_^)

11 years ago

It reminds me of when I was a teenager (16-17 years), I had a friendship with a 74 year old man. We had intimate relations. At first it was funny to me, but eventually I got used to it. Was one of the few people I've had sex. Until now, I have known four people. But this is 25 30 years I have not had a relationship with someone.

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

kylersmossfans...sorry can't you read? Saudi Arabia (as you wrote it,please check) is not my country. Chi Chi LaRue (all in French, you know?) is my neighbour country, next to C.S.I Miami. And we have The King. Not Barack Obama. Bhumibol Adulyadej is The King of Thailand. World's richest Royal living. Ask Elizabeth, she knows. They are friends. And that's why we can be friends here too. We Are The World...and so on. We can always continue this issue but worthless in these conditions. It'll last forever. Peace and enjoy your stay here on GBT! Greetings from Krungthepmahanakhon Amonrattanakosin Mahintharayutthaya Mahadilokphop Noppharatratchathaniburirom Udomratchaniwetmahasathan Amonphimanawatansathit Sakkathattiyawitsanukamprasit AKA City Of Angels/Bangkok. Hugs BSB

nate88
11 years ago

I have friends that are younger and older, a few MUCH older and we are FRIENDS. Why is there supposed to be some rule or age requirement to have to meet to be a friend. These decisions are personal and makeyourown choice but be ready to stand by your choice too.

11 years ago

Oh damn! I forgot from my Homosexuality 101 in high school, "chivalry goes out the door with feminism and especially when involving Lesbians." So I should have put, "GBTQL" as they would in the masculine tense be last. The door gets held open by them for me! MmmHmmm!

11 years ago

So BSB must be in Saudi Arabia? Well let's not forget WE have Chi Chi LaRue and to that I say, "Great One- SHAVE the queen!" Seriously- the freedom to LOVE (that does not mean have sex) should be universal. Strange isn't it? Those who will do nothing but condemn, seem to trump those who would step in, such as 2 men in loving relationship, wanting to adopt a 14 year-old straight boy nobody wants, but is ok with just having a home and love and raising from adults. The assumption they would want to convert his sexuality is not only ignorant but virtually impossible and would not be loving, but demonic, evil and yes pedo-predatory. There are sick people like that and there are sick people like Adam Lanza. The issue lay with "normal" people attaching death to evil (evil upon evil) and stigma to sanity. Put the word out, if you hurt a kid, you are removed for all your life from society and if you have issues upstairs, there is help available and NO SHAME in getting it. Ultimately, to have an open process, for kids who have no home or are left "unwanted", I would bet there are GLBTQ people who would rather work together to give them safety and bring them love, even without adopting or all the "assumed guilty until proven a saint" process of caring. WTF! Stop the pain now and start giving to the kids "out there" who are cold and hungry. Adult entertainment is for and only should be for adults. But porn has stigma too. But it is a multi-billion dollar industry around the world that if there was less stigma, more would be done to put an end to creeps preying on the vulnerable. None of us can stand it. Now imagine a big revue is put together, not XXX but some hot dancing and like an enormous rave in bigger cities. We could raise millions. Problem: no real charity that helps kids, would take the "dirty money." But it's ok to buy lottery tickets for education. Yeah. Right. Exit the set ...

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

God Save The King! xxx

11 years ago

bsb..you are gold here..always...i/we love your input..(slap on butt)hugs..mike..xx

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

mike....darling, sorry.it looked like that.i'm from small country and my vote here and there is very small too. but..we have the most richest of the world (most rich?) King here, you know him? huuuuuggggsss BSB

11 years ago

whats wrong bsb?..please....

BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

in which country we are in here? is this only for U.S citizens and your experiences? looks like that :)

11 years ago

if you are a nice and friendly guy to young guys...you live in a large city....you should have a house full of boys..it can seem creepy when an older man is seeking boys...do you have a legal outlet for sex? how many boys do you hang with?...how many friends do you socialze with closer to your age?..basic questions...