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How can I get together with another teenager?
I live in England and i know that coming out would ruin my life, down to a load of things... but i really want to find a boyfriend or partner or whatever, have you guys got any suggestions or similar experiences?
If you dont want to be seen in yr neighbourhood why not try visiting a place near by to look for guys.IT MAY NOT SOUND LIKE MUCH HELP BUT we have to get out an about to meet guys i think,Sometimes the Internet just doesnt work .
I know what you are saying about wanting to find a boyfriend or partner or whatever. I just turned 21 a few months ago and only had real sex with another guy 5 months ago. He is 2 years older than me and I am luck that he is so kind and gentle to me while having sex. But he is not interested in a relationship other than sexual encounters. He approached me after seeing me in the shower at the gym. Unfortunately he is not interested in being a boyfriend to anyone.
So you could do what I am doing in the boyfriend search, and that is to become involved in some group that interests you. and be with people your own age and make some close friends.
Find a few close friends who you can trust with your 'secret'. A few close friends can support you and help you, so you do not have to completely sneak around about finding your new boyfriend. it is working for me to find other guys who would be interested in me.
Also, food for thought on peeking out of the closet a little: Tell your parents both that you love them. tell them often if you do not already. They probably already know about you so it will be important for them to know how much you love them and that you care for them. When I told my Mom she said she already knew. she told me that 'Moms usually do know and Dads do too, but usually deny it to themselves'.
I hope you find someone in person soon.
There could be someone on here that lives close to you. Having a good looking page is a good start to finding someone. Im sure many guys here,have found a guy while still in the closet to family or friends. Writing the above blog is a good start and good luck with getting some good advice xo Ps Sorry for saying yr Page Suxs BTW