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Is porn replacing love?

Blog Last Activity 12 years ago 724 views 5 comments
I was just thinking that it doesn't matter how much porn you watch, you still need someone to put your arms around. I'll bet if I actually had someone in my life, I probably wouldn't need porn. Am I substituting the real need for love, intimacy and companionship with porn? I've tried all the dating sites and all I can attract is ugly old bald headed fat guys. Am I that repulsive that no one else is attracted to me? A lot of times I sit and contemplate all of this and end up depressed and lifeless. It seems that all I have is the cute guys in the porn and that's all I'm entitled to. Any opinion on this?

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jimi89
12 years ago

Usually a relationship is about more than how the person looks isn't it?
What is the kind of relationshop youre looking for?

(i agree schwayschway, you have to learn to how love and young people often don't know what theyre doing. So why would making love with a virgin be great?! ahaha)

1antoniomac
12 years ago

well love is for ever porn is for right now

12 years ago

I have never experienced real love in my life, I mean I have tried to show love but it never comes back. I have become a cold, miserable person.

12 years ago

Maybe you have been feeding your soul with boys which only exsist in your fantasies ....who I mean are the boy images whom you get engaged with whilst watching porn.....when you masturbate without watching porn these boys automatically change into dreamboys (they are not real but they remain in your fantasies like a kind of 'ghost'). These dreamboys or 'ghosts' are images, they are non exsistant to all other human beings who you meet in your enviroment, and only you are enable to make love to them and in return they make love to you. In reality yoür mind is telling you that you are in need, and it is human to love a human whom you shall only make love to and in return the human shall make love to you. Now it is time to stop dreaming, this means do'nt go out chasing your dreams and looking for a dream boy. You shall learn to be face to face with the reality and you shall search for real love.

12 years ago

The only way to find a guy you want to be with is to get to places where they are or hang out. The boys on this site are extraordinary..most are dull and not to great as sex partners....they need older experienced guys to bring it out of them....been there..did that..
you will get lots more in life...dont...dont..get frustrated or desperate and end up grabbing the first guy that is interested...that always led me to problems..stay cool..life is fun as long as you stay in control.Old,fat,bald guys..you dont want that to be you in 40 years..