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How to come out ?

LukaWhiteBoy Blog Last Activity 10 years ago 1.5K views 43 comments
<p>Because I am horny and want to find a nice guy. I think I am ready. Please, give me some ideas about how to come out so that my parents and friends know that I am gay. My older brothers both know now and promised to wait to tell anyone until I am ready. They told me that they don't care because we are still and will always be brothers and they both said that they already know about my preference for guys. They have both caught me watching gay videos on this site in my room. I am worried about my mom and dad and how they will be if I tell them now. And my friends not sure about it yet. I do need ideas. I think maybe if it is out that I am gay I will be able to find a good guy who likes the same ideas as me. Maybe it will be easier to find a nice guy to play in bed. I am gay I am horny and I think I am ready to tell everyone now.</p>

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10 years ago

There must be lots of boys on Maui who could give you good lovin'. Lots of boys here on Oahu who make me hurt so good! hehe lol ;)))))))))))) Keoni

10 years ago

each person and situation is different, Don't be in any hurry until you think about how parents, family and fiends might act when you tell them. Most important are firstly parents. Are they loving approachable about problems, or dug in bible thumpers who may react poorly. is mom or dad more soft and will listen maybe tell that one parent first. if mom suspects that might be the way to go....sometimes dads are hardest to win over BUT if they love you unconditionally then think it through and make your move. Secondly friends..will they support you? or does the school start bullying you? you don't habe to come out to everyone ..go slow and yes be cautious BUT NOT afraid. hope this helps my friend hugz paparon ron xoxo (contact me private IF you want ok?)

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

So much has happened and developed now since my opening the door and like stepping over the threshold and out. I need to make a new blog to tell about everything and thank all of the GBT dudes who helped me too. I LUV U ALL

warrior69
10 years ago

Those hugs you got from your parents when you came out to them will mean the world to you for the rest of your life. Wished I'd had the courage to come out to my folks. You showed a great deal of courage and you have a lot of integrity. You have every reason to be proud of yourself. ... Mike

10 years ago

Luka...he needed time to process...he is your friend..and you his...I am so happy for you that he could get passed his first reaction...he does care...each person takes time in there own way to process change....know you are loved...Thomas xxooxxoo

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

I want to tell you all about what happened on the beach late Monday.
My best dude friend came over when I was gone in the afternoon and left a note on my door like he wanted to meet me to talk at the beach where we always go with our friends. He knew when I would be able cuz he always knows my schedule and stuff so he just said meet him. This is my one most best friend who was so pissed last week when I told him that I m gay. u kno
I did go and when I got there he was no where. So I waited a while and then just got on my board and went out for a little play on the water. Nothing too far or anything so I could see and wait. he was like just not there.
When I was ready to give up and go back there he is on the beach sitting watching me low like. at first I thought he was maybe like I did not know what to think. no one else was there at all.
He just started in on me like telling me how he could not believe it or just did not want to believe it at first. saying 'how do u know' kind of stuff and like 'are u sure'. u kno. I thought he just like wanted me to tell him about my thoughts that I have n stuff. like more information u kno?
Then something happened I did not imagine. He started to cry I mean a lot and loud. I did too like I could not stop and then he sat down and we both like just like looked at the water washing up soaking in the sand.
He wanted to talk with me. it was good.

10 years ago

Hey Luka, I've been following your journey and I want you to know just how fucking brave I think you are and how much I admire you, no BS. It brought tears to my eyes reading about how your parents reacted when you told them. Your brothers rock too and your best mate will eventually come around if he really cares about you, just give him time. Sending some love north now :)

JohnnyBoy20012
10 years ago

Sorry about hearing some friends didn't accept you. Give them time and they might come back to you. If they are true friends they will come back to you. If you need a friend don't hesitate to message me i have free time to talk if you want. Big hugs to you.

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

I am not hiding that I am gay from anyone now. I am coming out now all the way.
A week ago I told my parents and it went well. My brothers too are OK with it. they love me like crazy and I am so lucky to have my family.
My best friends I told them this week. now that is a dif story. My best dude is still pissed. my 2 best girl friends like 1 is pissed and 1 started crying.
I have not been sleeping much over my best friends. just jacking off mostly every chance I get thinking of my new GBT friends here. it takes my mind off it.
And I have studied like crazy on my class stuff to stop thinking on my best friends.
My big brothers (2 both older than me) have called me every day. They want to talk and ask stuff like how r u and tell me it won't be bad after a while kind of stuff. They cheer me up. I am lucky to have my family and I love them like crazy.
I will just keep doin my thing. school beach jack off u know like normal.
I am almost 21 now and I opened the door like one of the GBT (SBS) dudes told me to do. Now I have told 4 others that I am gay (just friends down at the beach) and none of them really had much reaction. One laughed and said they thought that maybe I might be gay all along and never really cared one way or the other. One older dude said he is gay too and he told me he knows it is hard at first to tell anyone.

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

I am not hiding that I am gay from anyone now. I am coming out now all the way.
A week ago I told my parents and it went well. My brothers too are OK with it. they love me like crazy and I am so lucky to have my family.
My best friends I told them this week. now that is a dif story. My best dude is still pissed. my 2 best girl friends like 1 is pissed and 1 started crying.
I have not been sleeping much over my best friends. just jacking off mostly every chance I get thinking of my new GBT friends here. it takes my mind off it.
And I have studied like crazy on my class stuff to stop thinking on my best friends.
My big brothers (2 both older than me) have called me every day. They want to talk and ask stuff like how r u and tell me it won't be bad after a while kind of stuff. They cheer me up. I am lucky to have my family and I love them like crazy.
I will just keep doin my thing. school beach jack off u know like normal.
I am almost 21 now and I opened the door like one of the GBT (SBS) dudes told me to do. Now I have told 4 others that I am gay (just friends down at the beach) and none of them really had much reaction. One laughed and said they thought that maybe I might be gay all along and never really cared one way or the other. One older dude said he is gay too and he told me he knows it is hard at first to tell anyone.

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

I am not hiding that I am gay from anyone now. I am coming out now all the way.
A week ago I told my parents and it went well. My brothers too are OK with it. they love me like crazy and I am so lucky to have my family.
My best friends I told them this week. now that is a dif story. My best dude is still pissed. my 2 best girl friends like 1 is pissed and 1 started crying.
I have not been sleeping much over my best friends. just jacking off mostly every chance I get thinking of my new GBT friends here. it takes my mind off it.
And I have studied like crazy on my class stuff to stop thinking on my best friends.
My big brothers (2 both older than me) have called me every day. They want to talk and ask stuff like how r u and tell me it won't be bad after a while kind of stuff. They cheer me up. I am lucky to have my family and I love them like crazy.
I will just keep doin my thing. school beach jack off u know like normal.
I am almost 21 now and I opened the door like one of the GBT (SBS) dudes told me to do. Now I have told 4 others that I am gay (just friends down at the beach) and none of them really had much reaction. One laughed and said they thought that maybe I might be gay all along and never really cared one way or the other. One older dude said he is gay too and he told me he knows it is hard at first to tell anyone.

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

I am not hiding that I am gay from anyone now. I am coming out now all the way.
A week ago I told my parents and it went well. My brothers too are OK with it. they love me like crazy and I am so lucky to have my family.
My best friends I told them this week. now that is a dif story. My best dude is still pissed. my 2 best girl friends like 1 is pissed and 1 started crying.
I have not been sleeping much over my best friends. just jacking off mostly every chance I get thinking of my new GBT friends here. it takes my mind off it.
And I have studied like crazy on my class stuff to stop thinking on my best friends.
My big brothers (2 both older than me) have called me every day. They want to talk and ask stuff like how r u and tell me it won't be bad after a while kind of stuff. They cheer me up. I am lucky to have my family and I love them like crazy.
I will just keep doin my thing. school beach jack off u know like normal.
I am almost 21 now and I opened the door like one of the GBT (SBS) dudes told me to do. Now I have told 4 others that I am gay (just friends down at the beach) and none of them really had much reaction. One laughed and said they thought that maybe I might be gay all along and never really cared one way or the other. One older dude said he is gay too and he told me he knows it is hard at first to tell anyone.

BackStreetBoy
10 years ago

Just open the door. That's it.

10 years ago

That is not an abnormal reaction. And it may change, not because he is gay as well, but rather he was sharing only his feelings and not thinking about why you needed to wait to tell him. When you see him, tell him you understand how he felt, but ask him to understand that you needed to feel ready first for yourself and then you could tell others. And that he is the first you told of your friends. Try to start a dialogue. But don't let it keep you from being you.

LukaWhiteBoy
10 years ago

Well now it is hard to tell my other friends.
yesterday after classes I had a couple hours on the beach with my first dude best friend and
and like I told him I am gay.
Now he is pissed at me. he told me that all this time he thinks that I have been a liar to him. he said he is hurt about it.
Thing is he sometimes would like make me feel like maybe he might be gay too. now I am tired because I did not sleep much last night.
I layed awake thinking about how it might be if my best friend had kept something so big a secret from me. but if he is maybe gay I just don't know what to do now except wait.
Maybe I will aah I don't know. I have to go to class now and get my mind off.

10 years ago

good for you :) but telling interenet folks will only get you internet bf. you wanna get a real life bf

scotty96
10 years ago

This is excellent newzzz!

Davey1965
10 years ago

Coming out to MUM http://youtu.be/GESBUlXBCvE

Davey1965
10 years ago

I hope others read yr story and have the strength to follow in your footsteps.
Your now OFFICIALLY a New Man 8-))

10 years ago

Congratulations. I know that rush of good feeling when the weight of a secret is let go. May your friends be as accepting as your parents and brothers. Thomas

10 years ago

I could tell you how not to do it if you like.