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Twenty years from now will you lok back and wish you'd taken the chance it sounds like you really want to? I know I have a few of those back in my past and I wish I could call for a replay or a do over.

Thatcher's Britain in the early 80s (when gay was NOT cool) at a sports-oriented university and I was in a very similar situation as yourself with my best mate from secondary school. Being at the same Uni in the same Hall of Residence and from the same school we spent all our time together. We went on double dates with girls, even swopped the odd girlfriend - and when we were both single we joked that we might as well be a couple!
One very drunken night I just put a hand on each side of his face and pulled him to mine....and we kissed.
Wanna know what happened next?

Dude I am still virgin and want a bf so bad. I want to suk and feel someone suk me 69 position u know. I read ur blog n dude like ur so lucky. I think u have a bf and just don't know it yet. if I had ur experience dude like I think now I would be so happy. I would say I am gay and I want u to be my bf. dude he is gay or something like it anyway. tell him dude just tell him. what do u have if u don't. just jakn and u could like be doin it together with him. dude just tell him. in person tell him.

maybe the 8 tons of hints and clues he has dropped on your head knocked you out...when you come to..realize he wants you..i mean,,these hints are very loud..hello...lol...he is yours...thanks..mike..xx

I suspect that he's the one that is more confused about his own sexuality. He lets out a little of his gayness, realizes what he's doing, panics, then retreats into his straight act. Here's what you do. The two of you go back to one of the gay clubs you've been to together that is the most comfortable. Go to the quiet room or area after you've settled into the place. When you're both relaxed and he's let down his defenses then say this to him - "You're my friend but there's something you need to know about me. I'm gay. I've always been gay. This is who I really am. If you don't want to be my friend any more I will understand". Now it's all on him. Don't tell him that you've always been attracted to him - this isn't the time. He now has to make a decision about his own sexuality by either ending his friendship with you or accepting his own homosexuality if he is in fact a latent homosexual. Either way of the outcome, it's time for a defining moment. If he walks away then you don't have to waste any more time pursuing something that isn't going to happen and you can move on and find something that will. If he stays, then you can delicately move the relationship into an increasingly more intimate direction. That you will have to simply play by ear in such a way as to not frighten him off. If he is fundamentally gay he probably hasn't fully come to terms with it yet so you may need to bring him in gradually. Start by suggesting that the two of you masturbate together. If he is agreeable to it, then do it naked and on you bed. This will get him comfortable with the idea of being naked, hard and in a bed with you. After a few encounters like this and it becomes more natural for him, then lube up your hand and start masturbating him. If he doesn't resist, bring him to orgasm. He's now becoming more ready to accept the next level at your next encounter. Next session, just go straight for his cock and start sucking until he cums in you mouth. Swallow all his sperm and tell him how delicious it is. He is now yours. Good luck.

I think you guy is into you. You both have been to the clubs together. you both have put your arms around each other. One easy way is to just say you are curious about it and see where it goes. have him sleep over. if he is interested in you then he will spend the night.

option 1) get so drunk with him that your attempts to make a move that are not reciprocated can be blamed on alcohol and not affect your friendship.

Option 2) Set yourself up at home one day where you know he is going to walk in your room at some point, before he does start masturbating so he catches you and see what he does

Option 3) Ask to watch straight porn together, he will be so turned on a 'straight' mutual masturbation session would be well taken

He's had a few girlfriends, all have been quite a bit younger than him, whether that has any significance i don't know lol

straight acting gay xD or he is is just gay for you

Yeah we're both 19, i feel he swings from gay moods to straight ones, and resents himself when in the latter mood

he sounds curious as hell. id drink a little and make a move. my opinion is that he will have a hard time coming to terms with his sexuality at his age, but you never know. take care buddy and proceed with caution.

I really want to do that, but I value the friendship, and wouldn't want to ruin it. Though i'll always want more

If it were me, I would make a move and see how he reacts. It sounds to me like he wants you as much as you want him.