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Question for the Younger Guys (and Observant Older Ones, Too!)
As I mentioned in a previous blog, I've noticed that videos (from pay-sites as well as web-cam videos featuring boy-friends) almost always conclude with each partner jacking himself off, rather than showing partners getting each other off. What makes this stranger is that it's very common in straight videos to see the girl stroke or suck her male partner to a climax, quite often taking the whole load in her mouth (even if she spits it all back out).
I mentioned this in the forum of the pay-site I subscribe to, and, was quite pleased to get a quick reply from the guy who does most of the casting, scene set-ups, AND camera work...he's going to start asking the models if they are willing to get their partner off, and allow their partner to get *them* off.
But, he also said something that struck me as very odd (and, given the number of younger guys having sex he sees, in an industry where shyness shouldn't be a problem, I find his comment even more interesting. He said, "For some reason, twink models (as new as they are to sex) have a lot of trouble with someone else getting them off."
Now, of course, he's talking about guys in front of a camera or two, lights, and a cameraman and possibly others in the room, but, still....it fits in with what I've seen from those amateur videos...I mean, if boyfriends are having sex on cam, it just seems odd that they'd not get each other off.
So....my question for you younger guys....when you're having sex with a partner (whether for casual sex or in a relationship), do you let your partner get you off? I mean, either cum in his ass while fucking, or having him stroke or suck you all the way to and through an orgasm. And, do you do the same for your partner?
Speaking as a - much - older guy, it's simply inconceivable to me to *NOT* get my partner off...to me, that's my most important *duty* during sex: to give my partner the most pleasure possible.
I mentioned this in the forum of the pay-site I subscribe to, and, was quite pleased to get a quick reply from the guy who does most of the casting, scene set-ups, AND camera work...he's going to start asking the models if they are willing to get their partner off, and allow their partner to get *them* off.
But, he also said something that struck me as very odd (and, given the number of younger guys having sex he sees, in an industry where shyness shouldn't be a problem, I find his comment even more interesting. He said, "For some reason, twink models (as new as they are to sex) have a lot of trouble with someone else getting them off."
Now, of course, he's talking about guys in front of a camera or two, lights, and a cameraman and possibly others in the room, but, still....it fits in with what I've seen from those amateur videos...I mean, if boyfriends are having sex on cam, it just seems odd that they'd not get each other off.
So....my question for you younger guys....when you're having sex with a partner (whether for casual sex or in a relationship), do you let your partner get you off? I mean, either cum in his ass while fucking, or having him stroke or suck you all the way to and through an orgasm. And, do you do the same for your partner?
Speaking as a - much - older guy, it's simply inconceivable to me to *NOT* get my partner off...to me, that's my most important *duty* during sex: to give my partner the most pleasure possible.
Purely from an academic view (my minor in college was Human Sexuality!), I'm now curious about this...if I was still in school, I'd even think about doing a small survey, just to get some data.....:-)
Thanks for the answers, so far....keep 'em cumming! ;-)