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Question for the Younger Guys (and Observant Older Ones, Too!)

cornchip Blog Last Activity 10 years ago 653 views 6 comments
As I mentioned in a previous blog, I've noticed that videos (from pay-sites as well as web-cam videos featuring boy-friends) almost always conclude with each partner jacking himself off, rather than showing partners getting each other off. What makes this stranger is that it's very common in straight videos to see the girl stroke or suck her male partner to a climax, quite often taking the whole load in her mouth (even if she spits it all back out).

I mentioned this in the forum of the pay-site I subscribe to, and, was quite pleased to get a quick reply from the guy who does most of the casting, scene set-ups, AND camera work...he's going to start asking the models if they are willing to get their partner off, and allow their partner to get *them* off.

But, he also said something that struck me as very odd (and, given the number of younger guys having sex he sees, in an industry where shyness shouldn't be a problem, I find his comment even more interesting. He said, "For some reason, twink models (as new as they are to sex) have a lot of trouble with someone else getting them off."

Now, of course, he's talking about guys in front of a camera or two, lights, and a cameraman and possibly others in the room, but, still....it fits in with what I've seen from those amateur videos...I mean, if boyfriends are having sex on cam, it just seems odd that they'd not get each other off.

So....my question for you younger guys....when you're having sex with a partner (whether for casual sex or in a relationship), do you let your partner get you off? I mean, either cum in his ass while fucking, or having him stroke or suck you all the way to and through an orgasm. And, do you do the same for your partner?

Speaking as a - much - older guy, it's simply inconceivable to me to *NOT* get my partner off...to me, that's my most important *duty* during sex: to give my partner the most pleasure possible.

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cornchip
10 years ago

Hope no one misunderstands me on this...obviously, it's a personal preference, and, we're all different. I started having sex with other boys waaaaaaaay back in 1970, when I was 14, and have been pretty active (!!!) ever since, and I've never run across another guy who would rather jack off than have me take care of him...and, being an aficionado of oral sex, to me, there's just nothing better than him filling my mouth :-P

Purely from an academic view (my minor in college was Human Sexuality!), I'm now curious about this...if I was still in school, I'd even think about doing a small survey, just to get some data.....:-)

Thanks for the answers, so far....keep 'em cumming! ;-)

mophead2009
10 years ago

guess its about being in control you might like this video http://www.gayboystube.com/video/126013/golden-boys-6#.Uc7Lhm1aSQ2

10 years ago

its all down to preference really i guess. think there is nothing better than someone else 'finishing off' as you put it. ask him to finish you off maybe.

Tyrone22
10 years ago

My partner prefers to finish himself off, just a preference, I still get in there and assists during but he will always finish himself off. I love for him to finish me though. HOT

10 years ago

well we always jack each other off to climax when we have sex. its nothing better than his hand on mine and mine on his as we make each other cum. when we both do anal, we also cum in each others ass as well. i wouldnt say its a duty, it just happens naturally. its a big turn on for us anyway