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I've been bottoming since I was 13...never any probs

Nothing falls out of it that shouldn't...rape hurts, but everything else I've put in there has worked out mighty fine, and if he's large there might be some discomfort, but it is outdone by the pleasure...endorphins I suppose.

I do fine when my doctor gives me a prostrate exam is that a good sign that I could butt fuck?

it can create premature rhyoids...

Sigh...I just don't know...the couple of doctor's I saw seemed either not care or the main one seemed to indicate that there was not really anything to do. I hear what you are saying and I am very thankful. In the meantime it is not something that bothers me so...yeah, I don't know.

Hey Zander, if you have an anal fissure that is not completely healed, that would cause pain during anal intercourse and it would play up on you afterwords. I would advice you see your doctor. There are some creams that can help out and if that doesn't work there is the option of minor surgery. That would do the trick and then you could have all the pleasure you want without being afraid of pain. If you would like more info, I'd happy to help.

Kev and Paul .....Two FRISKY Rabbits in love lol

Hmmm... interesting, interesante. You should definitely talk to your physician about this one. I'm not sure where you're from, but there are listings for LGBTQ friendly physicians on the web or you can find information at your local Pride Center. Here's a video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoUWFVwFUZM

ouch hehe.

LOL Kev and Paul .I ll have to put u two in seperate cages to have a break haha

Thank you all so much...I really do appreciate it. May I ask one more question? And I am not trying to be annoying or difficult. What if I have a "fishure" which is where there was a tear on the skin in the rectum from a bad bile movement? Mine apparently never healed appropriately though the only time it has really been a problem was when I have had a few HORRIBLE diarrehia experiences over the past few years. I usually have been able to get whatever stomach problems under control by regulating my diet better (no processed foods, less desserts, sodium, fried foods, starches, sugars, red meat; all of which I still eat but cut way back on). Thank you all so much for the advice! You all are really special! REALLY!

we fuck like rabbits davey babey lol x

Great Advice Playbuddy/Jake. Take yr time and dont let yr partner force his cock without lube.
Once yr more used to it then u may not need lube eventually. Just dont let him fuck u like
a wild Rabbit in Peak, Mating season lol

Do not fear, Zaney, you won't yet have to clip coupons for Depends. Now, if you plan on crazy, over-sized objects going into your anus, there may be some complications. But, as I don't think you're talking about fisting, you don't have to worry. Anal sex will cause discomfort, especially if you and your partner don't take it slow. Listen to usainindia, use lots of lube and lots of communication. Introduce some foreplay (e.g. fingering) and try out some toys to get you relaxed and ready. Your anus will stretch out, but not enough that you'll lose control of your bowels. This stretching will heal. Imagine your anal sphincter as a rubber band. Of course, if you are concerned about anal stretching, you can always perform Kegel exercises. Oh, and remember to use protection. On a side note, Zany, according to a study by Dr. Joshua G. Rosenberger published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, of the 24,787 men surveyed "The most commonly reported behavior was kissing a partner on the mouth (74.5%), followed by oral sex (72.7%), and partnered masturbation (68.4%). Anal intercourse occurred among less than half of participants (37.2%) and was most common among men ages 18–24 (42.7%)." So, if anal sex isn't your thing, no worries because there's always kissing, oral, and masturbation.
Resources: http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexadvice/qt/gayanalsex.htm (look at number 6), http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2011.02438.x/abstract (quoted article).

no, we fuck each other and neither of our asses are bruised. no pain.

There is a good book available called 'The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men' by Bill Brent. I suggest that you either buy it online or at an adult book store. It is easy to read (not porn) and gives details on how best to enjoy anal sex, both as a Top and as a Bottom. If you are a Bottom and the Top knows what he is doing, does not rush things and uses lots of lubricant, you should enjoy yourself, even the first time. The biggest problem is when the Top doesn't understand that he needs to take it slow with a new Bottom, and does not use enough lube.

Nah, Ive been doing anal sex for almost 40 years and my ass is still as tight as yours.