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lovelyboy. this is a public blog and i will say what i fucking want. keep your private life to yourself

Tyler you threw this into the public arena,we both made mistakes and got hurt,you say your life isnt up for public view,neither is mine,but you threw it to the wolves,cant expect me not to defend myself now

Oh im glad your enjoying this mark1990 no one asked for your input !

sounds like a fucking soap opera to me lol

Hello Im STEFAN,the one whos getting ripped apart on this blog.I met Tyler originally a couple of months ago,and it ended badly,I left the site,hes a nice guy but too full on for me to handle,our conversations always ended up in tears,so I quite the site,but he had my e mail address.He kept in contact and asked me to come back on here so a couple of weeks ago I did,and we began talking,I asked him to slow things down but it didnt seem to have much effect on him.Im not calling Tyler but,for me,hes a little too intense,my life was a bit of a mess and I didnt think I could get involved with any one.However I began to wonder if I was wrong in this decision,Tyler is a nice guy.I reached this decision just before he went away on holiday,and we couldnt get in contact before he left.
Whike he was on holiday I got talking to a guy,who didnt even know my name,and he starts telling me about this guy on here,lovelyboyxxx,who a day or so before had,to use his terms,hit on him.Now I know Tyler is a bit of a flirt,nothing wrong in that,and some people might misread the signals,but when they say someones asked them to be their boyfriend,its pretty hard to get the wrong end of the stick.So I decided to back off.
Just before Tyler returned from his holiday,I got talking to a guy name Cooper,we just talked,but we got no really well and kind of clicked,and started getting to know each other,he had no idea I even knew Tyler to begin with.I needed a friend at the time,and he was there,simple as that,nothing was planned or set up,it just happened.While were getting to know each other Cooper starts getting e mails from Tyler,saying hes in love with two,possibly three guys,so what am I supposed to think and make of that.So I started giving Cooper my full attention,and were very close now,very close.Hes not in the same country as me,so were not getting up to anything,no pictures have been swapped,were just talking and loving each other company.Then Tyler comes back and all this shit blows up
I will accept my share of the blame for what happened,maybe I should have been able to handle Tyler better,Im very easily spooked by certain things,and Ill say Im sorry to Tyler here and now,I never ment to hurt or upset you and I am very sorry for that,and I hope one day you will understand.But your heavy handed flirting caused some of the problems as well,deciding to take a chance on someone only to find,dispite what they have said to you,they have been chasing after others hurt and cuts deep.We were both at fault here,lets not let this get anymore out of hand than it already is,I dont hate you and I never will

No messages were sent on this site it was all b e mail so I can prove all Ive said

usainindia,get your facts straight,and if you want to call me an a**hole Im here do it to my face

Sexygayboyz,again here both sides before you run off at the mouth,call me 2faced and a cunt once more,you low rent piece of trash,and youll find out how nasty I can be

anyone who leaves gbt must be mad. the place is full of lovely friendly guys. our friend Mark was gonna leave a while ago but so glad he didnt.

We are one family here. I dont want lovelyboy to leave. Please send him.a message to encourage him to stay.

We are one family here. I dont want lovelyboy to leave. Please send him.a message to encourage him to stay.

am not saying i disbelieve you but i do find it hard to accept what you are saying. cooper has been a sweet guy and a good friend to us and Mark.

If you are right no one remembers, when you're wrong, no one forgets ...
Do not let them win

Hi tolead is the same cooper but he emails me and it started off here

I am sorry you have had a bad experience with a couple of members. As others have said, it happens everywhere in life. I would hope you would stay. From the comments below, clearly there are people here that care about you. Cling to them. Haters are haters. You aren't going to escape them in life. But, you can take a stand and say, you aren't going to make my life miserable and just ignore them. I know that is hard. Been there and fought the fight. And if they are pm'ing nast messages, as uasininidia says, send them on to Nick18. He will take action if it is appropriate.

I don't know the two people you mention, so I will not comment on them. I do have a friend cooper from here, but he deleted his account, so I am going to assume it is a different cooper.

Let you friends support you here. Clearly you have many.

LovelyboyXXX, I don't know you, or any of the people you're talking about. I do know that wherever you go in life there will always be people that will want to mess with you or dislike you for no other reason than their own amusement. However sick and twisted their minds may be, you can't allow them to influence your decisions. I made the mistake of leaving somewhere, before the days of the internet, and as a result, by the time I was ready to expose myself to the point where I could get hurt again, it was too late. I had got too old for the people I wanted to be with. Please think carefully before you make up your mind. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you a long and happy life, shared with someone you love and who loves you back.

In any public forum, you're going to meet plenty of nice people and also some not so nice people. If you're enjoying the nice people you've met on GBT, the best thing to do is ignore the a**holes. If anybody is sending you clearly offensive messages, you can 'copy-and-paste' them in your own message to Nick18 to let him know what is going on.

Kevpunk of course I'm talking about the same person, if you don't want to believe me don't but he's vile ! thank you sexygayboyz your very nice and I need some nice people to talk to right now

These guys need to fuck off and leave you the fuck alone. they're 2faced and have fooled a lot of members into believing they're nice people, well they aren't! they're drama queens, and they think it's a fucking joke to push people to the breaking point! it's anything but a fucking joke. they're fucking with peoples lives and happiness , and it's bullshit. Don't leave or you're giving them power over you, don't give those cunts the satisfaction. ignore their bullshit it's not easy but it will make you a stronger person if you do.

no way man. i cant believe it. he is a real sweetie to us and Mark. are you sure we are talking about the same guy here?

Yes kevpunk I'm referring to the cooper you know and like, he's a nasty piece if work. You wouldn't believe the messages I've recieved from him

owls11 and Anjinsan - you say such true words

why??.,.nastiness comes from ppl who want to be that way so dont be a victim of their insecurities - just be you,,.members will realise who these victims of their own insecurities are at the end of the day.,.if only things were as music is the world would be a far better place,,.dont worry n be happy ~ hava Ggr8 hump day ♥♬

I found this in my late mum's belongings. I hope it helps you.

12 THINGS TO ALWAYS REMEMBER AND ONE THING TO NEVER FORGET

Your presence is a present to the world.
You're unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time,
Count your blessings not your troubles,
You'll make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers,
Understand, have courage, be strong,
Realise that it's never too late,
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way,
Have health and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a star,
And don't ever forget... for even one day,
How VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE.