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Some days I feel ashamed of being Bisexual

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10 years ago

Nothing to be ashamed of but I think you need to be extra mindful of the chance that your future partner(s), gay or female may find it hard to accept even though they may think they can cope.

10 years ago

it is ok to be ashamed sometimes. ..just don't make a habit of it. .it should be a good thing.to have more potential partners...xx

10 years ago

I can see that. Going out with chicks really is bad news.

edders11
edders11
10 years ago

Hey Matt I had those kinda thoughts once, now I realised that there are loads more people who will accept you for who you are than question why, and they are the real friends to hold onto. You are unique and special, dont ever forget that

swiftjohn
swiftjohn
10 years ago

Look on the bright side. It doubles your chances for a date saturday night.

10 years ago

never be ashamed of what you are. we are all beautiful and individual and we should be happy with what we are and stand up for. fuck what other people think. be your own person. xx

10 years ago

arron - we are sorry as well your parents are ashamed of u . how terrible is that to come from parents. geez

10 years ago

why? you are what you are...don't let others push you into the cookie cutter mold of what THEY expect of you. explore, grow, be you, and enjoy what you are ..your sexual life is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS! be a nice person and you get back what you are..your parents are the ones who need counselling not YOU!

10 years ago

ok nick

10 years ago

never be ashamed of who you are, enhance the world, feel free inside, focus, sending you little boxes of warmth from scotland

Davey1965
Davey1965
10 years ago

Put Simply if you feel ashamed ,or like Arron said, your Parents are ashamed of you, then
your life will be Miserable and the Homophobes, in this world have won. Be proud of yourself
and youll have a wonderful life of Self Respect and High Self Esteem. 8-)

10 years ago

My parents say they are ashamed of me because I am gay....I am sorry for them that they feel like that...

10 years ago

Matt this may surprise you (!) to learn, but 50 years ago you did not have millions of black people sitting around saying "I feel ashamed because of some in society's views on blacks - especially in a dozen or so States I can think of"...

Your post is ridiculous Matt.

10 years ago

It is what you want and like and others should respect you and if every Body was the same the world would be boring

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
10 years ago

hey matt, the sooner you can unburden yourself from this the happier your life will be. It's always easy to say that but in truth if this is a dividing line with your friends then perhaps they are not what you think they are. You need to look in the mirror and like who you see or it will be hard to love others if you cannot love yourself...

10 years ago

thanks draget

10 years ago

Gotcha. First, screw them. Second, keep in mind that people are repulsed by things that are different or what they can't understand, which is why gays and bisexuals were shunned for so long, and still has a long way to go. I know how u feel. It took me a long time to admit to myself that i am bisexual, and then longer to accept it. I still have a long way to go, as i am not "out". As a bisexual, I have the best of both worlds. Accept that you are what u are, and that's not likely to change, and importantly, there's nothing wrong with it. There will always be narrow minded people who don't understand. There's nothing wrong with you, I know you are in good company. As for those narrow minded people, their not accepting your bisexuality should be their problem, not yours. Your only problem is to accept who you are. Once you do, and I think alot here will agree, you will feel better about yourself. I sure did.

10 years ago

thanks coolcock

10 years ago

don't think about what other people say, main thing is that you're happy with the way you are

10 years ago

I feel ashamed because of some in society's views on bisexuals and gays.

10 years ago

like Nick says...Why? What makes you ashamed? pls tell us why