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yup, pretty much Nick. I have to say this is also one of the most bizzare things I've ever gone thru...and HE considers himself in the daddy role! Um, ok, I'm game, lol

So you are all daddy and no sugar? lol

well ok, not every 18 yr old is not going to buy u all that. But, why assume that all they want are material things? Not all are like that. Yes they are many who seek older guys only as a sugar daddy but they spoil it for those who don't. As I said in my earlier post, the younger guy I know and I have a long distance thing going....he gets nothing from me, I can't it's long distance, and he knows that. He has received nothing material or cash from me, yet he initiated this.....yet he still communicates with me almost every day thru emails, and we sometimes talk for hours. Not once has he ever tried to manipulate me for anything, he has never expressed any need for material things in hope Id take the hint. It wouldn't take much for him to end this, but he doesn't because he knows what I offer him is more valuable and harder to find than someone like a sugar daddy

Let's face it an 18 year old twink may have a perfect face and body and be great in the sack but he isn't going to buy you a car, take you shopping for a new rolex, or on foreign holidays is he?

Well for what it's worth - I have a bf who is 2 yrs older than me (22) but that does not stop me from appreciating older guys - and most of the older guys I know (not sexually) are always kind and considerate and understanding of someone my age.What is not to like about older guys when they have a lifetime of experience and can help guide you along the right path to happiness and success.

i know for me its sure not the money lol. however i have had alot of younger guys granted someone were just looking for a sugar daddy and didn't stay long however i have had sex with alot that stated they just don't like guys there age they play to many games.

draget and ismealan I think your comments are bang on. as a 60 yr old who has had many boys in my life attracted to me ( and I have to be honest I do wonder why) I have found it isn't just about sex with them..... they seek advice, want to know things, love to travel with me, and see things, hang out together and sexually I find its all about pleasing THEM not myself which I think same age guys want to get off and that's it. I adore cuddling, hugging, kissing, and talking while in bed its not wham bam thank you man . attraction isn't always about just looks or age.. many have different types they like so go with what you feel right? In the hetero world Hugh Hefner(Playboy owner) is revered as the mans man ..men love the fact he gets young girls but he is all about power and money.

Once again, it's a preference. To some, age doesn't matter. Ever notice when girls are always with someone a few years older than themselves? It's because they seek someone more mature than those their own age. When I was younger, I had no interest in older guys, it was just a preference for me. Now I'm older myself. For the past six weeks I've been actively pursued by a 19 yr old, something I didn't ask for, and seemed odd at first to me. I asked him if he had a problem with my age, and he said no. He then asked if I had a problem with his age, I said no. We have become extremely close, and if it wasn't for distance we'd most likely be together. They say age is just a number, and I'm learning that lately. I asked him what he saw in me, and he said I listen to him, and I talk to him in a way no one else does; I talk to him like a human being and not like a piece of meat like everyone else. He's a wonderful guy and if he let age get in the way I never would've been able to get to know him, or for him to know me. We've both agreed we're a perfect match, and I never even think of his age anymore, for him he said it was never an issue because love is involved. How many have passed on a chance to be with someone because of age? We're happy we didn't.

Wisdom, Life Advice, Guidance, Understanding, Stability, Compassion, A lifetime of knowledge, lots of things really. I have a father, a great one that would sacrifice everything for me and as great a dad as he is, as wonderful a relationship as we do have he still does not understand the feelings I have because he is, well not gay. Most of the people I have had the pleasure of talking to from here are older than I am and I have gotten some very good advice and they are awful good listeners.

@billpering You made the most interesting comment IMO

Your not negative just ignorant. what would a younger guy see in a short man . fat man, thin man, buff man,white man ,black man,asian man or for that matter. I'm sure there are some who are in it for the money but in my experience the men who have been with me are not here for the money. Who are you attracted too? I have asked why the men I have been with in the past which are usually 20 to 30 years younger then me why they like an older guy. There response is that men there age tend to be a bit immature and lacking in common sense. JUst sayin

Yes I think sumpterr is right lol

could it be cash? ...just sayin

I think that quite a number of young gays need a father figure in the lives for whatever reason

My BF always says you can't help who you fall in love with.