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chrish1994 Blog Last Activity 10 years ago 553 views 11 comments
<p>hey i have not been on here for a while because i have been doing so much over time at work but anyway</p>
<p>i have a boyfriend who majorly obsessed about me, always wants to have sex with me and do anything to make sure we spend our whole lifes together but i don't feel the same way because we have only been going out for about a month and <strong>my question is does he seem like a stalker or something like that?</strong></p>

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Davey1965
10 years ago

On a side Note I missed u Chris and im glad u have a BF even tho he sounds controlling.. I hope yr Dog is well too buddy OZZY OZZY OZZY
OY OY OY 8-)

johnnybegood
10 years ago

hey there buddy long time no see, hope all is well. I would say this, there is nothing more important then having well amounts of communication. If there is something that is making you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, there by all means speak your mind. Dont let someone elses actions define you and run your life. And if this dude dont step off, then tell him how it is! Hope that helps ---Johnnybe

10 years ago

As others have suggested, I think communication is the problem here.
You need to be open about your feelings. Let him know you're not
ready to commit to a serious relationship with anybody right now.
If he's mature, he'll understand and back off. If not, he may
walk away in anger .. but that's not your fault.

nate88
10 years ago

Don't be judgmental and talk about 'boundaries', what you BOTH are experiencing is a part of love. Keep your lines of communication OPEN.
HUGS, Andy

10 years ago

No he's not a stalker that's something completely different. Stalking is an act of control over another but isn't a partner. Its usually done by those that desire to be your partner or an ex. He sounds obsessed with you, maybe moving too fast for u, and it sounds like his actions are making you feel suffocated. You need to talk to him and get him to slow down and give you some space. Its most likely he's not aware how you're feeling. Give him a chance after you talk to him. If you don't talk to him he will continue, and you might break it because u cant deal with it anymore. I've been there, and it worked out. Good luck with that.

10 years ago

do you have feelings for him? if so tell him you need time to grow the relationship, slow down and see how compatible you two are. do you share the same interests? go out and enjoy the same things. enjo each othe's company. even slow the sex down and see if you can still hold his attention.

Davey1965
10 years ago

Sounds like hes moving way to fast for yr liking Chris..So why dont you tell him that your not ready for such a committment. Guys like that can feel like there overbearing sometimes but i would give him a chance to slow down and give you some space until u are certain that you want to be with him.. I do feel tho that your just not ready for a guy like that at your age.

10 years ago

he needs to slow down a little and you need to seize the opportunity. like anything in a relationship...COMMUNICATION: is the key... talk to him, then bang his brains out in bed lol! hugz paparon xoxo

10 years ago

do you not believe in love at first site then? he has fallen in love with you which is great, but you mentioning the fact that he may be a stalker would indicate that there is not 100% love for him. talk about it, let him know how you feel.

Domono1
10 years ago

Well Chris that's what it's all about Loving someone who wants to spend some time with you. If you don't feel the same then you must communicate and let him know how you feel. I'm no expert but I do know that if you really care for this guy don't hold back your feelings. As far as the stalker thing you mentioned it all depends on how much YOU care to have him around you.

JohnnyBoy20012
10 years ago

I think he just protecting you since he loves you so much