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Be advised. Areas that are known to gays as cruising sites are also known to the cops who will either stake them out or send decoys in. Gays go there hoping to bust a nut. Cops go there hoping to get a bust. Who wants to see their name and picture in the newspaper for being arrested for public indecency and soliciting at a known gay cruising area?

to each his own..no problem with you walking and if not into cruising just tell the person you aren't interested..some "trolls" will take the hint..some won't sadly.

If you know that a particular beach or park is a well known cruising area and you don't want to be around that, then go for a walk somewhere else. It's not likely that you can change the situation on your own, so accept it and move on. Lover's lanes have been around as long as automobiles at least, and as long as people have difficulty finding privacy they'll probably continue to exist in some form. However,it seems in the age of the internet that sex in public places is motivated more by recreational thrill seeking than old-fashioned necessity. If a community does not want people to have sex in the park or on the beach, then set a closing time and enforce it regardless of who, what, why.

@Mr. Fritos. My sentiments precisely. Also, str8 boys & girls have public sex too. That must be depraved too, right? Otherwise, it's a double standard, and therefore hypocritical. As long as you aren't hurting anyone else, and minding your own business, what's the problem? Is anyone here going to deny they find the public JO vids hot as hell? I freely admit they make me rock hard, and I can't rule out the possibility that I will some day check out that scene. If it feels good, do it! Sweet. ;--))) Meow.

I dont mind guys cruising for sex but it creeps me out when there pushy or Whistle.In my city Gay cruising areas which are mainly toilets are well known for drunk guys and guys trying to pick up underage boys.
Its clear that it worries u and it makes u uncomfortable so just ignore them and keep walking

I think having sex on a beach, or public lavatory, provides more ammunition to the anti-gay loons than anything...it is impossible to convince "middle" [America, New Zealand, England, Australia etc] that depraved behaviour is okay, and it isn't...if you were really homophobic and wanted to set things back 40 years then having sex in public is the best way to go about it! lol

Everyone is into different things, so you're not weird for having different likes or dislikes. On the other hand, as long as they're not being *too* public about it, there's nothing all that weird about what the guys on the beach were doing, either. Like the old saying, different strokes for different folks ;-)

I agree with @usainindia. Btw  I get it all the time at beaches around here too. I don't let it affect (bother) me or it will, I just keep walking, and I ignore the public sex acts. Whatever I do I don't say anything...

Some guys, gay or str8, are into random sex with strangers. I know that I am not. Good for you that you are not, either.

Me personaly have never found a beach like that. Does that mean I am not attractive to them.