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Most homosexuals can function sexually with someone of the opposite sex, but enjoying it and finding satisfaction and fulfillment in it is something else altogether. Probably the same with heterosexual men. I had plenty of opportunities to have sex with women when I was younger, and I had no interest. Closeted or not I always knew I was a homofagsexual.

@battlefield3...i totally agree with ya man...@zanyzander...amen brother

good information.thanks!

Bisexual and bi-curious are labels and as such do not necessarily correspond to people’s actual behavior. It is common for hetero people to have engaged in homosexual activity without ever considering themselves bi sexual or bi-curious for example.

Bisexual can describe either actual sexual behavior or sexual orientation. In the first sense, someone who’s sexual history includes sexual behavior with both males and females could be considered bisexual regardless of whether they consider themselves gay, straight or bi. In the latter sense, someone who believes them self to be attracted to members of either sex could label themselves as bisexual even if, for whatever reason, they only engage in sexual activities with members of one sex during their lifetime.

Some bisexuals are attracted to both sexes equally. Some are not. Some consider gender/sex unimportant. Some are very interested in gendered behavior, but are still attracted to both genders.

Bi-curious is often used by “straight” people who are interested in gay/lesbian sexual play. Sometimes it is a way for a young person to explore their sexual identity. Sometimes it is an initial step to coming out as gay or bi. Many people experiment repeatedly to satisfy their “curiosity.” Others never actually engage in any homosexual activity. Curiously, I can’t recall ever hearing a gay person begin calling himself or herself bi-curious.

Bi-curious is often, but not necessarily, taken as a pejorative in the LGBT community. Some curious people are seen as not having yet accepted their real orientation. Some are seen as unreliable partners, because they are saying that their real commitment is to the straight community. And some are seen as predators. In many adult online communities, bi-curious women are often looking for a third for herself and her man.

Also, calling yourself bi-curious is sometimes seen as an attempt to keep heterosexual privilege by not actually calling yourself gay or bi.

i used to think bisexuals were gay and just denying that fact by going back and forth. i don't believe that anymore. you made a good point of saying "romantically" involved with either sex. good point. but what about the person that just sleeps around with both sexes and lacks involvement? i ask because i have watched my younger brother totally str8 for 2 years, then started experimenting with guys. then back and forth. he has had some girlfriends and only one relationship with a guy that he seemed interested to the point of a relationship. he continues to go back and forth and in our conversations, i really have a difficult time trying to understand him, as well as he can't figure himself out. he's 19 now, dropped out of college and i worry about him. thanks for bringing up the topic.

I think everyone's bi-sexual whether they realize it or not! If nothing else you have the freedom to choose!!!

Very well said stevesch! I've been attracted to both sexes since childhood (I'm now 51). The gay community knows what it is to long for open minded acceptance yet some in the gay community seem unable to accept the concept of being bi. Very disappointing.

I respect people who are bisexual, and I find it best to take people's identification at face value rather than think they are really something else. BUT, when I'm around bisexuals, I personally and emotionally experience them as "gay" or "straight" depending on whether they currently have a male or female partner. So on an emotional level, bisexual is abstract to me. I really need a homosexual partner to have a sense of relationship security. That's just me.

Bisexual is the word used to describe a person who is romantically and sexually attracted to both people of the opposite and of the same sex.

Being bisexual does not mean that you have to like both boys and girls equally, or that you have to go out with both.

How do you know?

Some people may have always been attracted to both boys and girls, but for others it may be something that happens later on. It is not something you have to decide right away, or ever, as you may feel attracted to boys or girls at different times in your life. Remember it is your sexuality and up to you how you define it.

Denial

Some people think that people who describe themselves as bisexual are really gay but cannot admit this. This is not true; you can be attracted to both boys and girls and being bisexual is not the same as being gay. It is also not true that bisexual people are really straight but just experimenting.

Stereotypes

There are lots of stereotypes out there about being bisexual but it is important to realise that you do not have to change dramatically because of your sexual preference. After all, you are still you, whoever you are attracted to. Some people think that if you are bisexual this means that you are promiscuous and are more likely to cheat on your partner. Neither of these things is true. How many partners someone has and whether they are unfaithful or not depends on the individual, not their sexual orientation.

Prejudice

Unfortunately people who are bisexual do sometimes experience prejudice from others because they think it is not normal and that you should decide whether you fancy men or women. This is called homophobia, and it is important to know that people who think this are wrong. More importantly our society has systems in place to stop this sort of discrimination. Being bisexual is completely normal and you have the right to be who you are and have relationships with whoever you like.

Meeting other people

Some people find joining a biseuxal club or society really helpful, especially when they do not know many other bisexual people, as it can give them the opportunity to meet like-minded people. Growing up bisexual is not always easy and it can be very helpful to meet other people who understand any worries or difficulties you may be having. Of course that does not mean that you can only have gay or bi friends, or that your straight friends won’t understand you. Groups for young people are run by qualified youth workers. These workers are happy to talk to parents too.