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NO – is the easy way

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castanho
9 years ago

When someone with low moral principles or without education about how to communicate is asked for something, the easy way to solve the problem which is asked to help is to say NO.
This applies, sadly, to public servants in their duty, to teacher’s, to some called friend’s, I would say to a certain type of person’s of any age or occupation that simply doesn’t bother with other’s problems.
Happily there are exceptions and when I find one is really comfortable to know that in this world you still can find good people. Someone that cannot solve your problem either because does not know or because is not possible, tries to explain itself about what is questioned.
When I ask a teacher about an opinion on a subject I wrote, sometimes instead of a NO meaning “you are not right or you don’t fundament your thoughts” sometimes I am lucky to get a dialogue and someone that try to understand what I intend to mean and explores my idea giving me suggestions to improve.
Lucky me!