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Socialization between different ages is it possible?
<strong>I quest how successful is a relation of persons from different generations?</strong>
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I agree 100% with you. Everyone from born has its life cycle. Boyish today, adolescent tomorrow, growing adult and then decreasing again till runs out of life. Is a very realistic approach of life.
Remember that 1000 years ago a 40 years old was a very old man nearly to die.
So life stages are quite subjective. I was seeing Pasolini film “Decameron”, and others like “Cantebury” , Satiricon”, Arabian Nights” (if you would like to watch them and cannot get it contact me).
In societies the YOUNG comes as a sign of vitality for the OLD. Makes pleasure and company, shares moments of lust and war.
I agree that today youth does not see the relation like that (don’t ask me why?). In old Greece as also was told in this blog post the relations with young’s were seen as normal and healthy.
The Eastern society, full of Puritanism turned all upside-down. If you are caught with a non 18 YO u go to jail. Well, the Puritanism go on and the Vatican has been in front of major cases that shows that Puritanism is outside the real human nature.
As I am no native English speaker, forgive my mistakes.
I am sure everything is possible. It depends on the characters and how free they live. As some guys said before, your age is not important. It´s just a number. Think about Christopher Isherwood who met the love of his life when he was 48 and his new friend was 17 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christopher_Isherwood)
There are so much regulations in our modern society that forces people into so called „good and healthy behaviour” instead of living a true healthy life. Healthy life in my opinion is living without fear. Fear of getting older and not being attractive anymore, for example.
Everybody on this planet wants to be loved and want real friends. And if we have no family, we have to create our families. Every young hot dude will be an „old fart” one day ;) Don´t forget that.
When I contact younger people - no matter if online or in reality - it does not mean „just sex” at first place. (perhaps I do not have enough words to explain exactly what I mean…)
It can be just sex, but it also can be having some fun, drinking a cold beer. We have to free our minds!
When I was young I also cared for older people (and I still do that!) - it´s so easy to make their day by just being honest and friendly; I was not only hunting for hot cocks, because I always knew - one day I will be the old guy. I would be happy when my young friends are still around me when I am really old one day - LOL.
By the way, this is really a nice place. Some really nice guys here :) Thanks!
http://www.altfg.com/blog/directors/chris-and-don-tina-mascara-guido-santi-interview/
I should have added to my rather romantic earlier post, that our sexual desires are all different and finding one's particular turn-ons is exciting. There are many on this site who are older and want younger (or vice versa) and their relationship (if they canfind each other) may be purely physical. No criticism of that from me.
As you have said, society is very coercive and judgmental. I agree with my friend Terence (Roman comedy writer, 2nd century BC): homo sum, nil humani a me alienum puto: I am a human being. I think nothing that humans do is unnatural
Wow, I'm sorry to hear about that Burrhead...