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Can you cheat your partner?

castanho Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 428 views 10 comments
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9 years ago

No I would not cheat, don't think I could and much of that is because I view sex as secondary and the relationship as primary. I have been cheated on in two different relationships that never should have happened in the 1st place and it does hurt so my commitment to my partner is nothing less than 100%. My commitment has been tested, I have had desires that were never acted on and never would have been.

Amyntas43
Amyntas43
9 years ago

Very conventional, I know, but assuming that friendship and sex are both part of the relationship, I would never cheat, unless we both agreed it was 'open'. No strings attached sex is wonderful for the unattached, but being a 'couple' or 'unit' has its own rules, I think

darkknightreturns
darkknightreturns
9 years ago

I've never cheated, but twice been cheated on, and believe me it hurts. Probably the deepest wound you can ever have done to you. I believe in Trust and honesty.

9 years ago

thanks bro, I'm gettin better at it. xo

9 years ago

@gm4yngr

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
9 years ago

@Moshwack, sorry to hear that you were treated that way, that REALLY SUCKS! Don't give up on love, just be careful to guard your heart and be sure of who you are dealing with before you get too emotionally attached.

9 years ago

I've been cheated, treated badly, ripped off financially, tricked into love. My first guy I was foolin aroun with was an A-Hole. I get treated like a one night stand when I am supposed to be one to take home to your mom. I am single now :p

9 years ago

i could if i let myself sink to the lowest point in life. but then what good am i? i stay on a high in life and then the thought never enters mu mind.

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
9 years ago

If I had a partner, I would never cheat on him.