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I agree with Ron (@darknightreturns) - sex can be meaningful and sincere, an inherent part of loving someone, or it can simply be casual and passing. Each has its place, as @swiftjohn rightly says, it depends on what we want in life ... the secret lies in knowing the difference. But it can be dangerous for ourselves and others when we aren't able to distinguish love from casual sex - that's when a lot of damage is done.

then you have never experienced love during sex. there is gratuitous sex, and meaningful sex ..some day you will understand the difference.

I have no problem with it being called making Love .Playbuddy is right When it gos beyond just having Sex, its good to know that it truly is making love and we should call it that i think

I always believed that the great thing about being gay is that you can have sex for the sake of sex alone. Granted, I've always liked the guys I've had sex with, I wouldn't have had sex with them if I didn't, but I can't say that I've ever loved any of them. Although I do know that two guys can fall in love and live happily ever after but that's not been my case nor am I looking for it. I just seem to prefer a simple uncomplicated independent lifestyle while still getting my fair share of sex. Something that is much easier to do for gays than it is for straights. That's why I'm so glad that I'm gay.

I guess I am one of the odd ones, I had never had sex in my life until I was already in love with my bf and now I can not imagine ever having sex with anyone other than him.

lovemaking is the time leading up to and after the sex is done, foreplay and cuddling after, me right now, just enjoy the sex ...haven't found mr right, lol

I agree that when two people who sincerely and deeply love each other, their having sex together is an expression of their love, in addition to feeling really great!