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Thank you

hector460 Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 398 views 4 comments
<p>I've been coming to this site for years and only recently started looking at the blogs section and created an account. I can't thank you all enough, I'm in tears right now, happy ones. I've spent my entire life (short though it may be) lying to everybody, and even though most of you appear as disembodied icons to me, I know there are real people behind them. I'm so much happier now that I've found people who can relate to what I'm going through and I sincerely wish so much that I could pay you all back somehow. Even better, I know that none of you want to be paid back for your kind words and advice to me, because most of you are like me and just want me to feel better. I love you all so much, thank you, you rock.<br /><br />Hec.</p>

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carlkellner
9 years ago

I am glad you have found comfort and friends here. There is great power in realizing that others have experienced the same worries, fears and problems. You are not alone Hector. I read your previous post but did not comment because others had made the same points I would have made.

9 years ago

Hector...you are part of a loving caring community here. As @methusela says, we have all been on the journey as well. Each in our own way and at the time right for us, generally. As you make your decision, know that we stand with you and stand ready to hold you close and to support you on your journey to being the authentic you.

9 years ago

Hector - we have all gone through what you are enduring at some stage in our lives ,having to make up stories about why we don't have girlfriends etc and life can be cruel at times as we all know; but be strong so that when(or if) you decide to be open with your sexuality do it one step at a time.I came out to one of my best friends and then slowly slowly told others that needed to know and,human nature being as it is,my other friends gradually got to find out and they have been fine.It took one or two a bit of time for it to sink in and they were a bit distant at first but eventually we got back to where we were - very good friends.Not everyone will accept your sexuality but that is their choice - mostly bourne out of ignorance and (or) fear but just be true to yourself and I am sure you will be fine.

9 years ago

Thanks for your kind words, Hector - we're all glad that you are feeling happier. This is a good place, and I hope you stay. Don't forget that we're always here for you. xxxx Christopher