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freaked by sex

archangel616 Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 501 views 12 comments
<p>for some reason the thought of having sex randomly freaks me out. ive had sex with ppl i was with for a long time and i think about having sex alot but im too afraid to ever go thru with it. anyone else like this?</p>

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Grundlebunny
Grundlebunny
9 years ago

When I first became sexually active, I'd cruise a certain adult video/bookstore with video booths upstairs, and hang out at a certain bar in Honolulu. The idea of hooking up with strangers was thrilling to me. I was very selective about who I fooled around with, however. I've been in a relationship for years, though, and so that life has lost its appeal to me.

sooboy
sooboy
9 years ago

I don't think I'd have random sex as you call it. Though I'm in a relationship and quite satisfied with it, even if I wasn't I just can't picture myself having sex with a total stranger. Too many unknowns with that kind of situation for me I guess.

9 years ago

no way , random one night stands to scary for me.

neil52
neil52
9 years ago

I've been messing around with people sexually since I was 12. Had great fun and came in a lot of interesting places. Only thing I ever caught was the crabs when I was 17. and that was from a married man!!
Just go out there and do it!!

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
9 years ago

I used to have random hookups whenever I could but that was many years ago. I wouldn't mind doing it again, if I knew the guy was disease free. But what I'd really like is to be in a LTR with a guy who loves me as much as I love him.

9 years ago

im a nymphomaniac. lol i turn myself on sometimes even. and well sex randomly would be like a treat or a fun time like going out drinking partying. As long as i am attracted to the other guy only though, and if he wanted to have sex. I would go for it. but that opportunity does not arise as often as i would like it to. :P

yanalxD
yanalxD
9 years ago

Not me, but if you suffer from anxiety or distress related to sex perhaps you should seek help from a therapist specialized in the field. You shouldn't go through pain to experience the natural pleasures of the flesh. :-)

archangel616
archangel616
9 years ago

yes i basically mean hookups or even knowing the person a small bit. for some reason everything about a hookup freaks me out yet i fantasize about it, it doesnt make sense to me

mophead2009
mophead2009
9 years ago

thanks for this blog bcuz im a twin and i cant do relationships think i hve issues but i so want love so hey ho



iamore
iamore
9 years ago

I'm totally with ya! I'd have to know a guy fairly well to be comfortable enough for things to naturally go downstairs

9 years ago

By 'randomly' do you mean hookups with guys you might meet at a gay club or somewhere else? I certainly am in favor of exercising caution. There are lots of guys who act like they are nice but are not. There are lots of guys who have STDs and either do not know about it or do not share that information. I realize that there are other guys on here who might feel differently, I recommend getting to know the other guy fairly well first.

9 years ago

no, not at all. you mean with strangers? first time meetings?