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The gay dating scene

Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 470 views 3 comments
<p>I am seeking some advice on picking up guys, and also any recomended websites worth looking into... I have never had issues picking up girls, i am confident, easy to talk to, decent looking (not a 10 but i'd fuck me for sure lol), etc.... but since realising that my gay tendencies are not going to disappear overtime i have began being a little more open minded and started to keep a look out for potential when im out on weekends and general day to day stuff. The problem obviously is you just dont know if a guy is gay, atleast when your chatting up a girl you know whats what, but a guy is so much harder... How do you know? And yeah if anyones had experience on gay dating sites some honest feedback would be helpful...</p>

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9 years ago

Some good advice guys, thanks... I do get bored of the general bullshit talk when meeting new people and try and make it about who they are. More personal and interesting, but random topics can be fun too... And yeah i know of a couple of gay bars but i just haven't had the balls to go there yet... I'm not really out to many so it is hard atm... but i am getting there... cheers

swiftjohn
swiftjohn
9 years ago

There is a gay scene somewhere near you. Everywhere has a gay scene. Find out where the gay clubs and bars are and start hanging out there on a regular basis and simply be yourself. Don't expect much the first time or two but act comfortable like you belong there. After going a few times, people will start to recognize you and strike up conversations. But above all, be your natural self. All things will come to you. Just be patient and don't give up if nothing magical happens right away (although magical things do sometimes happen right away if you're there at the right time). If opportunity does present itself, don't blow it by letting a hard cock slip from your fingers (or mouth or ass for that matter).

9 years ago

My advice and experience is never forget the heart. Yeah sometimes we're all just out looking for satiation, driven by desire. But underneath it the romanticism never goes away, even if we try to hide it or want to push it aside. I've been amazed at what I've gotten away with, and the guys I've pulled, when once I clock that I'm attracted to them, I go for charm and 'hey who are you as a person?' rather than just sauntering up with some stupid 'what are you into?' vibe.