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How about a progress report........;)

If you don't do so already try dressing to attract, tight jeans, tank top, neck chain ,nice scent etc as well as winning smile.

many of us have missed opportunities like you. there is only ONE solution...better to try and fail than to fail to try.. get back on the horse and ride my son lol!

Write a letter to him and put it in its postbox if you are to shy to talk to him.

Please do keep us up to date. If I were you, I'd spend a lot of time outside!

My Angel... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ww6Vprx0CvE&list=UUC0HCBVp6BXLWRgapyb2W-g

ill keep you guys up to date on what happens

hey guys thanks so much for the feedback, I have such a confidence boost now, I have everything to gain and nothing to loose, thanks mylilbanana, and he has given some signals that he is gay, some of them are whenever I go outside he will suddenly appear outside, I think we are both to shy, but im taking all of your advice and will try my best and start up a convocation next time I see him

I think LB has given you great advice about talking to strangers but I have a question for you. Are you already good at talking to every other stranger and only having trouble talking to him because of your feelings for him? If that is true, your problem is a bit more complicated. I also wonder why you said that you recon he is gay. Have you seen him sending out any signals that he is gay? Other that the friendly smile, has he ever sent out any other signals? Without knowing more about you and him, it is hard to give specific advice on how you can get acquainted. If you have trouble approaching him, maybe you should try putting yourself in situations where he can easily approach you. If you have a car, try working on it in front of your brothers house. Maybe someday when your brother is away, you could "accidentally" be locked out of his house in a heavy rain. If you appear to need help, maybe he will approach you.

Like lil-b I have been in that situation. If he is cleaning his van he may be hot and thirsty so why not ask if he wants a drink? Helps you to relax and get to know him as well.Worked for me once

I agree with Jerrod. There's a lot of wisdom in what MyLilBanana says. I'd only add that people like other people who are real, even if they're flawed, shy or awkward, much more than people who 'act' out something they're not. So you'll always be your most attractive self if you're just yourself. It sounds like the simple smiles you exchanged have already gotten things off to a good start.

Well said lil-b

Been there done that lol lost out on so many opportunities that will never come again. So really all you can do is just make the effort to get to know him a little at a time. I know it's not easy at first but like most things it does get easer with practice. I was very shy but how I over come it was for starters realize you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Start with talking to strangers at like the grocery store and on the bus or bus stop. that will give you more confidence in yourself, and make you start to feel more comfortable talking with strangers. The most important thing I can tell you is to be yourself don't try to impress him with nonsense a little light humor is a good icebreaker being a little silly is okay but don't act dumb what ever you do. It's only been like a little over a year since I started talking to strangers on the bus or grocery store, today I can talk to anyone and feel comfortable. Remember you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. i hope this helps ` hug xxx

get your butt back over there and ask him about his van....or anything else