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Who is your hero?

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<img src="http://i.imgur.com/1yF1CrB.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="333" /> By 'hero' I don't mean what Hollywood means. I don't mean someone perfect, superhuman, cool and always ready with a smart ass quip. By 'hero' I mean human beings who remind you of your own humanity and allow you to live with it in a profound way; I mean someone who inspires you with depths of admiration approaching love; I mean someone whose accomplishments, whatever they are, are so hard won and so beautiful that when you feel you can't go on or you're tempted to self-pity, this person both humbles and elevates you and gives you strength. For me it's the Russian composer Pyotr Tchaikovsky, my absolute hero, a gay artist who lived at a time when his way of loving and desiring was not only frustrating - which all of us can relate to - but extremely dangerous. He also suffered from depression, at a time when there was no medical structure for understanding and helping with that. Living in one of the most repressive countries in the world, torn between forbidden and melancholy feelings, yet driven by a precocious musicality, Tchaikovsky created what is still, to me, the most jawdropping piece of art ever made: his 6th symphony. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDqCIcsUtPI......This symphony has been my 'go to' place whenever I feel that life is too much. In it I feel all of nature, all of love, all of the cosmos, all of mortality and infinity, all of the human spirit, all of sex and death, all of the struggle to be a person, all of pain, all of joy, all of wonder. It has rescued me so many times from ceasing to care that I can't count them. That this man - this gay man - under duress, lonely and sometimes in despair could defy all that and create what is to me the greatest work of art in human history is what makes Tchaikovsky my hero. Who is yours?

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darkknightreturns
9 years ago

Anyone here who truly knows me, knows the answer to my hero, without question JFK, but others include Abraham Lincoln, Malcolm X, Martin Luther King Jr. RFK. All murdered by the American white establishment, for their civil rights beliefs and in most cases with the help of the out of control Intelligence agencies such as CIA, Military and FBI. A bloody disgrace.

Davey1965
9 years ago

Thanks Andy ill look him up.One of my Heroes is Joan of Arc who was born to a Poor family but quickly rose to prominence in France and she was still just a teenager.She helped France take back there land and win many victorys against England .She offen had to dress as a Boy to gain respect from the Army ...She was burnt at the stake and was only just 18.Twenty-five years after her execution, an inquisitorial court authorized by Pope Callixtus III examined the trial, debunked the charges against her, pronounced her innocent, and declared her a martyr.Joan of Arc was beatified in 1909 and canonized in 1920. She is one of the nine secondary patron saints of France,

nate88
9 years ago

Thomas Jonathan Jackson commonly known as Lt. Gen. T.J. Stonewall Jackson CSA. A very reverent man who was loved by his men and respected by his adversaries.
Considerated the greatest tactician of modern history and studied world wide still today. The true example of a Southern Gentleman.

9 years ago

For music, Wagner; for architecture, Mies van der Rohe.

Davey1965
9 years ago

Thanks Chris for the Piece on Gandi haha

beart1066
9 years ago

My personal hero... Difficult... I'll go with someone most here won't have heard of: Hans Litten. A lawyer who got Hitler to admit in court, that he wasn't the harmless politician he claimed to be, he was arrested shortly after the nazi's election victory. Famous for all time is his behavior in 1935. The prison he sat in made a cultural program for Hitler's birthday, prisoners had to participate. He stood in front of the whole prison, exactly knowing what he was doing, reciting "Thoughts are Free". He is known for sharing his food with other prisoners, when he didn't have enough himself. He died February 5th 1938 almost toothless and blind from torture by hanging himself. If there is something like a real hero, Hans Litten is it. He may not have won his war, suicide might have been his last feeble victory, but he stood strong for what he believed and when the going got tough he got tougher. So to honor him, here a English translation of "Thoughts are free" (the German original sounds a lot better): Thoughts are free, who can guess them,
they flee past like nightime shadows.
No one can know them, no hunter can kill it/shoot it dead
It remains: The thoughts are free!

I think what I want and what makes me happy,
but always inwardly, and as it suits.
My wish, my desire no one can deny,
It remains: The thoughts are free!

And if someone locks me in the dark/gloomy prison,
All that is absolutely wasted work.
Because my thoughts pull the barriers to pieces
and walls in two, the thoughts are free!

I want to renounce forever the worries/sorrows
and want to never again plague myself with whims
One can in the heart always laugh and joke
and think: The thoughts are free!

The thoughts are free!

9 years ago

Manfred von Richthofen, 'der Rote Kampfflieger'.

9 years ago

Great responses guys, and a good mix of different types of heroes. I loved your story about Gandhi chris! I think I heard once that when Gandhi first came to Britain a reporter asked him what he thought of Western Civilisation and Gandhi replied 'I think it would be a good idea'. Violence and poverty are undoubtedly the two biggest evils on this planet so not just Gandhi but people like the Cho's, and anyone else who fights poverty and violence, is definitely heroic. LunarWill, thanks for mentioning Howard Zinn; had to look him up but was glad to find out about such a fascinating person. Mike yeah Franklin was a force of nature! Also, Mike and letsGo, I like how you mentioned personal heroes, just ppl in your lives who inspire you.

9 years ago

Davey one of my heroes is Gandhi When Mahatma Gandhi was studying law at the University College of London, a white professor, whose last name was Peters, disliked him intensely and always displayed prejudice and animosity towards him.
Also, because Gandhi never lowered his head when addressing him as he expected, there were always "arguments" and confrontations.
One day, Mr. Peters was having lunch at the dining room of the University, and Gandhi came along with his tray and sat next to the professor. The professor said, "Mr Gandhi, you do not understand. A pig and a bird do not sit together to eat."
Gandhi looked at him as a parent would a rude child and calmly replied, "You do not worry professor. I'll fly away," and he went and sat at another table.
Mr. Peters, reddened with rage, decided to take revenge on the next test paper, but Gandhi responded brilliantly to all questions.
Mr. Peters, unhappy and frustrated, asked him the following question. "Mr Gandhi, if you were walking down the street and found a package, and within was a bag of wisdom and another bag with a lot of money, which one would you take?"
Without hesitating, Gandhi responded,'The one with the money, of course."
Mr. Peters , smiling sarcastically said, "I, in your place, would have taken the wisdom, don't you think?"
Gandhi shrugged indifferently and responded, "Each one takes what he doesn't have."
Mr. Peters, by this time was fit to be tied. So great was his anger that he wrote on Gandhi's exam sheet the word "idiot" and gave it to Gandhi.
Gandhi took the exam sheet and sat down at his desk, trying very hard to remain calm while he contemplated his next move.
A few minutes later, Gandhi got up, went to the professor and said to him in a dignified but sarcastically polite tone, "Mr. Peters, you signed the sheet, but you did not give me the grade."

GayBoytubes
9 years ago

Eugene and Minhee Cho have always been aware of the imbalances in the world. It was only when they started traveling and saw with their own eyes the “faces” of the people living in extreme poverty, that they founded One Day’s Wages A non-profit organization based on the principal of donating one day’s wages to uplift and enable those in need. In 2009 they donated their entire yearly income to their cause just to let people know they wouldn’t ask something of others if they weren’t willing to do it themselves. To date, they have funded over 40 projects and in doing so have given nutritional support, provided HIV treatment and care, improved access to maternal care, provided clean water, funded lifesaving heart surgeries and provided an education to hundreds of individuals globally.

Davey1965
9 years ago

Yes Justin Mahatma Gandi.A simple man but he wanted so much more for Mankind

JustinThyme
9 years ago

Mahatma Gandhi---he lived what he espoused: principles above possessions. And through his simple Wisdom taught and influenced millions. Jt

letsGO
9 years ago

sorry, but nobody famous, he was my DAD...he accepted me for who I am and he'd take the shirt off his back if someone needed it, I try to follow in his footsteps...he is and always will be on my left shoulder

9 years ago

Too many to list in the areas of music, literature, and human and animal rights. Off the top of my head, people like Howard Zinn, who fought for the basic tenets of Democratic Socialism, or people like Harry Hay, who seems to be forgotten by the gay community now. Thanks for sharing.

Davey1965
9 years ago

Fantastic Blog Brae.U got me thinking now so i will return