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I have issue with the sign in process. All fields should be mandatory to fill out properly (age 112 should not be accepted). Rules should be posted upon membership for pics and videos(re-underage), blog rules,(what should and should not be posted( my pet peeve is nude pics that could be posted under photos, but that's me) Nick can't stop all the dishonesty, nobody can, but I've always been of the opinion, volunteer monitors for each section would take some work off him, and make the site safer for the young guys here, and help the site route out under age stuff, avatars in bad taste, and those that propagate it, but nothing can stop misleading profiles. We all know there are several "underage predators here". My solution would be as soon as they post or say anything along the line of pedophilic comments or pics, throw them off the site immediately. One last word to you young guys, if some one is making inappropriate sexual advance in your wall, report him to Nick. We'd all like this website to be the best around for young guys trying to find their way in what is an confusing time through puberty to adolescence growing up gay. Make friends or get advice from us old "SAGES" We don't need members sitting in silence who are confused about their feelings, being bullied or have thoughts of suicide. Reach out guys lets all make this a better safer place. "weed out the Problems" and those who cause them.

hang around awhile. you will get to know who is who and who to trust. you're hottest friends will disappear in the middle of the night.

Im with Cooper I think Mike is a Hot 20 year old stud to lol

Feel free to inbox me if you want... I am not on here daily but jump on usually atleast a couple times a week. Obviously there will be fakes but i think you'll find a few that are legit... But nonetheless, being anonymous isn't necessarily a negative. It enables a more honest conversation for those that aren't ready to be completely open due to whatever personal circumstances they have. However, posting a blog relating to your issues will most likely help you with whatever issues you may have, and also have the benefit of also possibly helping many others with similar issues...

@marshmont I have come to the opinion that you say you are a 60 yr old man I have reason to believe that you are a 20 year old hot stud!

Like all places on the internet, there are those that are real, those that want to be something else and those that just don't want to reveal themselves at all. I think you can quickly discern who is who around here. Trust is something that is earned. So take your time to get to know people. And your instinct will help you know who you can trust..And BTW, my info is real...just sayin'

I think is important to put your ageish, like in twenties, or seventies etc, but as for profile pic, a lot of us don't make a pretty picture or do not want to be identified, so put something nicer in their avatar. Once to get to know a person and feel comfortable with them you can always share pics and vids of yourself then. Mind you I doubt anyone would want a vid of me! xx

I am the age on my profile. if u waana talk im here.

you only have to read blogs to know who will listen to you , There are numerous guys willing to help and yes many of us are older...here to help not get into your pants ok?. private me or others

Many of the members here choose to put a hot pic of some young man on their page as an avatar. I guess it represents who they are attracted to. Many members list their age as 113 or 114, but I doubt they are really that old. My avatar is an actual pic of me and as my info says, I am really 57 years old. I am not out to most people and it is not easy to be gay where I live. Feel free to message me if you want to talk to a real person about your struggles.

Stop worrying so much, nobody else in the world who counts is going to care if you're gay or not lol. No one is paying attention, believe me. Being in the closet is like being paranoid you're going to get arrested or have someone put you in a hospital or something. I just don't get it. But you should have great luck in college! I mean you're away from home (hopefully) and there's so many different people from unknown backgrounds and such, their perspectives just aren't worth worrying over friend!

████ The first good thing,is you are at college....LOTS of guys to meet there..!!..just chat up the ones NOT in your teaching block..!!..the 2nd is that gay,lends itself to quick fun..eg: between lectures..!!..hope that is of some use..??...DAVE™....█████████

I suspect a lot of profiles are false. Reaching out in the blog section is a good way to get advice and support from a lot of different people. They will also help identify the bull shitters.

Good point haha

i do agree with you.. but you yourself have no picture of who you are nor do you have any information about you in your profile. I understand that you're not out and that you're having some difficulty about being gay. Most of us went through that... Sadly some didn't survive it and there those who are just miserable with their lives due the fact that they can't come out. It took me many years to look in the mirror and like who I saw.

This is a gay site that you have to join in signing up to. So not just anyone can see your picture. Perhaps one of the first steps in helping you to come out would be to put your picture up... And you will find out the world did not end. Best of luck