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Mates - Advice needed

Hillsboy1 Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 632 views 15 comments
<p>What would you do if you saw some pics of ppl/mates that you know get uploaded on here, not by them.<br /><br />I agree they are cute, and glad others think so too, BUT, they've had pics lifted from FB.<br /><br />Would you tell them, or report it, or keep it secret and beat off at the thought?<br /><br />I'm not sure </p>

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Hillsboy1
Hillsboy1
9 years ago

Thanks everyone

Neither are gay, 1 knows I'm bi

For now I will leave them in peace and just keep njoying the lovely boys on here without outing myself.

I think it's a compliment that ppl like them

trusgold1089
trusgold1089
9 years ago

I'm not eaning to be a smart ass but if that is the most important thing that needs your attention get a second job. really I'm not being arrogant but you have mucch better things you cold be solving. I know solve the midddle east problem and me nd you will phone it in LOL bro

swiftjohn
swiftjohn
9 years ago

It all depends on whether or not your friend is gay. If not, does he know that you're gay? If not, then you just outed yourself to him by admitting that you surf gay sites. How will he respond to that? Will he be cool about it and thank you or will he go around announcing to the world that you're a dirty fag and not want you around anymore? Only you know him best. I personally have an automatic default position for potentially awkward situations like this: I mind my own business and keep my mouth shut (unless of course I think there's a good chance that by revealing this and outing myself I might get his dick in my mouth).

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
9 years ago

remember any pic you upload can show up anywhere

rubberboy847
rubberboy847
9 years ago

I hd someone use one of my picts and said it was him lol who the heck would want to be a big guy like myself lol

9 years ago

Get them removed? From the internet? Dream on! People copy them, pass them around (what's this site for if not keeping quality photos and vids in circulation?). Pages are cached. The internet never sleeps. The internet never forgets. Post nothing you'll regret. If you wouldn't want to see it on the front page of your local newspaper, do you really want to post it? Exactly. So don't.

9 years ago

Someone will tell them. Best it's not you. Nothing good will come of it and your relationship will be forever strained.

9 years ago

The fact is that I think many young people don't realize that what you upload publicly to the internet is possibly there forever and can be used in any way, or used without their permission. As an example, I just saw a video here recently of Frank Wolf. I'm betting his family (and perhaps he himself, if he hadn't died by suicide) would prefer this not to be seen. Tell your friends about it, and help them to get them removed before they are disseminated too widely, at which point it will be impossible.

9 years ago

I agree with justin Thyme too, tell him.Nothing should be posted without consent of this person.

Hillsboy1
Hillsboy1
9 years ago

Appreciate your thoughts guys.

just some extra thoughts to add to the equation

It wasn't just 1 mates pic I saw in the set, but several. All from sports

And none of them know I'm bi - but possibly suspect (well a Cpl of them would)

9 years ago

I agree with JustinThyme.

JustinThyme
JustinThyme
9 years ago

No matter what site you saw the friend's picture on, you should TELL HIM...and help him find it, then let HIM deal with what to do! {Assist him if he needs / wants help!!}