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Um is it worth killing yourself because you are gay and it makes you unhappy?

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12 years ago

No its not , nothing is worth killing yourself for , there are things you can do in life if you wanted something changed , but being gay you cant change that .ive tryed everyone has at one stage .

toby11467
12 years ago

hello i am going to tell a little about myself ,i am29 years old .when i went school i was beat up all the time for being gay ,myfather made me act straight,there was any of that. i just came out of the closet 141 days ago right here on these site. and i know what it's like to look at a goodlooking guy.and they see you looking.but no response ,due to guys that act straight because i am a straight acting guy ,but i am gay and no one can take that from me,or you.it's part of you you ae and i sent you a friends request and if you want to talk more about it l can tell more. toby p.s i give you a big hug a kiss.

toby11467
12 years ago

hello i am going to tell a little about myself ,i am29 years old .when i went school i was beat up all the time for being gay ,myfather made me act straight,there was any of that. i just came out of the closet 141 days ago right here on these site. and i know what it's like to look at a goodlooking guy.and they see you looking.but no response ,due to guys that act straight because i am a straight acting guy ,but i am gay and no one can take that from me,or you.it's part of you you ae and i sent you a friends request and if you want to talk more about it l can tell more. toby p.s i give you a big hug a kiss.

toby11467
12 years ago

hello i am going to tell a little about myself ,i am29 years old .when i went school i was beat up all the time for being gay ,myfather made me act straight,there was any of that. i just came out of the closet 141 days ago right here on these site. and i know what it's like to look at a goodlooking guy.and they see you looking.but no response ,due to guys that act straight because i am a straight acting guy ,but i am gay and no one can take that from me,or you.it's part of you you ae and i sent you a friends request and if you want to talk more about it l can tell more. toby p.s i give you a big hug a kiss.

toby11467
12 years ago

hello i am going to tell a little about myself ,i am29 years old .when i went school i was beat up all the time for being gay ,myfather made me act straight,there was any of that. i just came out of the closet 141 days ago right here on these site. and i know what it's like to look at a goodlooking guy.and they see you looking.but no response ,due to guys that act straight because i am a straight acting guy ,but i am gay and no one can take that from me,or you.it's part of you you ae and i sent you a friends request and if you want to talk more about it l can tell more. toby p.s i give you a big hug a kiss.

toby11467
12 years ago

hello i am going to tell a little about myself ,i am29 years old .when i went school i was beat up all the time for being gay ,my

12 years ago

Being gay is a good thing Surferboi. Just like being straight is a good thing, or being a woman, a man, a black, or whatever you are.... it is a good thing. It should not make you unhappy. It is something for you to celebrate! Thank God that you are gay. It is who you are. It is the way God created you. It is who and what He wants you to be. That is a good thing. There is nothing wrong with you. Fully accept this in your heart and your mind. These things are all true. God wants you to celebrate what He has created. If someone cannot accept these facts then that is their problem, not yours. It is their misunderstanding. That may make you unhappy, because we all need acceptance, especially from those who matter the most to us. But don't let them bring you down or destroy you just because you are not who or what they want you to be. Yes, be sad for them and for their lack of understanding, knowledge, and wisdom. Pray for them. And then continue celebrating the beautiful gay person that you are, that God made you to be. You have so many wonderful experiences to look forward to. A long lifetime of them. Drink them all in and savour this precious and wonderful gift of life that God has given you to enjoy because He loves you so much. And I love you too. Peace and joy to you Surferboi. :)

12 years ago

No it's not dude. Trust me times can be hard and you might feel like things aren't going the way you want them to buy I promise you they will get better. You have friends here that I know can help you get through this hard time. I will admit it still isn't easy for us gays but it doesn't mean we should give up and just kill ourselves. Doing that is just giving in to what all of those that hate us want. You need to be strong and realize that you can change things and make things better for yourself too. Please just don't give up. Look at all the people that are willing to help you and give you advice about this. You have friends here including me. I promise to be here for you whenever you need someone to vent your feelings to and I'm sure all of my friends are willing to be here for you too. Most of the people that have posted here I know and they have done nothing but help me. You are not alone dude and I promise you things will get better. You are just having a little trouble finding your light. We will help you though. Promise we will. :)

Alex17
12 years ago

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12 years ago

hey, I think being gay is great. last night when I walking my dog, I realised that I wouldnt like to be straight, actually I think Im lucky of being gay. Im happily married to hubbie, this year we will celebrate 30 years of being together. he is the best that ever happened to me. He understands even when I dont do it myself and when Im down (often) he helps me to get up again. One day you will be in the same situation. having a bf. living a good life with nice friends. Here on alex17 wall, I also found a family. Never got any kids. but now i have a whole bunch. Some are sometimes a pain in the ass, but I still love them and they have added something very valuable to my life. Come join our family by alex17, ruslan and the rest of us would love to have you around. Take care. You know, my life was changed dramatical because of 2 suicides, they didnt realise how important they were to VERY many people, you are too. Love Yens/Dad

Alex17
12 years ago

No its not dude . Its final and its not. Many are gay in the world . Let me and my friends reach out to you now. Talk to me and post . You are not alone not even close :) My name is Ruslan i have many friends here that are waiting to speak to you. Let us share what we know. I see many have posted already to you blog. So dont wait we are waiting for you now. Love ya Ruslan :)

12 years ago

Not at all. I've attempted suicide 3 times, im glad i didnt end my life, now my life is getting better, I have new friends, I'm out and my friends accept me for being who I am. Be strong because it will get better. Pm me if you wanna talk

brittguy18
12 years ago

noooooo!! your cute and irish and gay!! and all of them are reasons to live!!! killing yourself is a waste of your life. we're all here for ya mate!! never forget that!! im in a similar position as you and am kinda close by, so message me whenever yeah? (= **hugs** xxPhilxx

brittguy18
12 years ago

noooooo!! your cute and irish and gay!! and all of them are reasons to live!!! killing yourself is a waste of your life. we're all here for ya mate!! never forget that!! im in a similar position as you and am kinda close by, so message me whenever yeah? (= **hugs** xxPhilxx

12 years ago

Your sexual orientation is just one part of what makes you to be you. There are some aspects of who I am that I am not happy with, and others that I am more than happy with. When I balance those things out, I am always happy with the whole of who I am. Life is precious. Please do not consider ending your life because your sexual orientation. I strongly suggest you contact The Trevor Project 800-273-8255 or www.thetrevorproject.org They have trained counselors who can discuss with you how you are feeling about yourself.

12 years ago

No, it isn't worth killing yourself because your life is more worth than being gay. You have a plenty of life going on. If you want to kill yourself, you will lose 60-90 years of your life. You have plenty of looking forward for your future life. Try to think how worth your life is. You're worth person, Surf. Try to think how worth you are. Ask yourself, "What kind of worth person am I?" - Unfortunately, many people don't recognize how worth they are. You have many worth things in you. You can try to unlock your unhappy feeling by thinking about how worth you are. It'll make you feel good, but it'll take time. :)