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BEST FRIEND TELLS ME HE'S GAY AND WANTS TO BE BOYFRIENDS

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This has been a crazy two weeks. Brian, my best friend since like first grade told me about 2 weeks ago he's gay. I was cool I sid OK it doesn't change anything just be careful be safe. We were  partying and all I kept thinking about was Brian. I have had a gf for  years the sex is great but now I am obsessed with Brian. When I was drunk I told him all I do is think about him he said I want us to be boyfriends and I just said es. We have been having sex everyday 3 or 4 times a day its amazing even if it is in the car. I haven't talked to my gf since she's all pissed off and I am sure not telling hr. Brian and I  are seniors and play soccer and baseball together. I never even knew I was gay how does this happen? I am really happy with Brian but a shitload of problems comes with this. He broke up with his gf 3 weeks go just before he told me.  I liked my gf a lot but its so much more intense with Brian. Has this happened to anyone else? Two weeks ago I was a regular straight now now me and best friends are always naked fucking. this is crazy.  What the hell do I tell Lisa? What do I do when me and Brian are always together and not around bitches you know how guys talk. I talk to Brian about it and he says we only have til June just keep it on the downlow. How is that even possible e wear each others class rings now.  I am always hounding him for sex he is just as  hot to fuck. I am so screwed on one hand and happy  as fuck on the other. My two brothers will freak. Maybe I need to just stop fucking around with him but I really dont want to

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8 years ago

That's good and I'm happy for you both.
I thought I was straight for a LOT longer, but when I finally admitted it to myself, it seemed perfectly logical. I was just SO angry with myself for missing out on happier times; and being with the boy who had a crush on me from school.
I don't like giving advice but will say what I would do.. I would give it more time with Brian - it clearly seems to be working for you both.
You are also clearly besotted with him as a B/F. Look in the mirror an tell me you don't have a big aft grin from ear to ear when you think of him.

As for the girls - If you can stay on good terms with them that's OK - as FRIENDS.. Otherwise - never look back; nor ask what IF?.
All the best to you two too.
Jack. x

8 years ago

This guy is jasonsboy....and many other identities. His stories are all bullshit and he has many of them. Answering his BS is just feeding the troll more.

8 years ago

well after fucking Brian the 100th time I am retaining my cocksucker badge I love cock

funksexual
funksexual
8 years ago

I say take your time and try it out... I guess you can keep it on the low but that's not for me to decide, it's up to y'all. Besides y'all both just realized your bisexuality so take your time, both of y'all.

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
8 years ago

I would keep it on the DL, enjoy your time together, who knows, it may turn into a nice LTR, or not. Just be safe and have fun!

8 years ago

When I was younger, if my best friend came Out to me and we ended up in a loving relationship, I'd have been totally thrilled with it. Even if you two do not want to come Out to everybody, I think it would be the right thing to do for each of you to let your girl friends know that it is over. It is up to you if you tell them why. If you do tell them why, then expect everybody to know. Although many 'young loves' don't last, quite a few do last. My advice would be to do your best to make your relationship with your best friend, the best relationship ever.

tituspow
tituspow
8 years ago

I think that the worst problem is you to live the contradiction of to have a girlfriend and to continue dating her, as if his new relationship didn't exist. Maybe it is better to give a time for his girlfriend and to see until the where it is going his new relationship with his "bestfriend" (I think he is a real boyfriend now). If the relationship with his boyfriend goes really well forward, his relationship will last long and it will be worthwhile, without guilty feelig. Good luck and sorry my English.

tituspow
tituspow
8 years ago

The human sexuality is a box of surprises, always. If you never felt attraction for some guy, only with his friend now, that can be an exception that is common with cousins or very close friend, something more "fun among the same". But if of here forward you begin to feel attraction for other guys, that means that you were bisexual and you didn't know. Hey, why stop? Is this a good situation for both? Take care and go on...

8 years ago

thank you for the advice its time to slow down a bit and see if this relationship has transformed. What is odd is we both had steady gfs and we thought we had really good relationships Lisa has all her friends hating ton me and everyone is asking why

8 years ago

Hmmm... I think you'll just have to let this run it's course...of course. hehe

8 years ago

Yes, a phase, hormones raging, balls ruling brains.

enigma13
enigma13
8 years ago

Sorry mate but this won't last, there seems to be no love just raw sex which of course is thrilling and exciting. I feel that this phase will soon pass.