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redhotrunner

12 years ago

I don't believe in labels. I just prefer to live by my motto: If it feels good, do it!!!!!!!!!

12 years ago

i want to be popular...so i agree with everyone....ty.

aray520

12 years ago

being absolutely gay I can still say I like women thou have never been sexually turned on by any and I've tried cant get it up except with guys.

12 years ago

MAYBE YOU'RE METRO--ANYTHING YOU LIKE (MALE OR FEMALE) GOES.

jack1947

12 years ago

Labels, Labels, Labels, what a shame. I hate them, I have been straight most of my early years. It wasn't until I was in my 50's that I got interested in m2m sex and at first I felt excitement, shame, guilt etc etc. But I kept coming back to men. At first it was the liberating NSA feeling, you know, in it for the orgasm. But I cam to realize that there is definitely an emotional side. Through my travels I did come across that one special person, and m2m sex came to mean a lot more than just sex. We made love and for the first time in my life, it was for a higher purpose than just me having a great orgasm. It was more an objective to make his the best he ever had and show him, as he showed me, the tenderness of caring. Does that make me gay, I don't know? I still enjoy women, and due to circumstances beyond both of our control (he died) we couldn't take our love to the next level. So I guess I will never know. But I don't consider I have a label, I am just human with human emotions. So if you are concerned with having the right label, forget it and let life be your guide, and to hell with those who feel they must label you.

seadog

12 years ago

Good question and great discussion going on. I have liked boys since I was 11 and always known my preference. But I hid it, had to, and eventually was married for nearly 30 years to two different women. All my sex has been straight since I was out of my teens. The sharing of sex with another person can be good or not good, no matter the preference for girls or boys. As for staying with another person for a long term relationship, it has to be a good match with the preference, desires, fantasies and all that goes into sexual expression.

12 years ago

saw a documentary..just today...stating that today being bi is becoming the normal..that is among girls as well as boys......

12 years ago

saw a documentary..just today...stating that today being bi is becoming the normal..that is among girls as well as boys......

just4today

12 years ago

I forgot totally abt metro!

12 years ago

I like looking at pics and videos; but never had sex with anyone--physically in the real-world, for some reason it's not a turn-on. I don't understand: the pics and videos I do find it appealing. I heard that "METRO" is the new word--which means you are just willing to do it with someone you really like.

12 years ago

I like looking at pics and videos; but never had sex with anyone--physically in the real-world, for some reason it's not a turn-on. I don't understand: the pics and videos I do find it appealing. I heard that "METRO" is the new word--which means you are just willing to do it with someone you really like.

brittguy18

12 years ago

i like the term bicurious (= covers a lot of it (: but i also agree with just4today. really it matters nothing what you are, if anyone ask your interested in guys and girls, if they wanna label you thats up to them i guess (=

brittguy18

12 years ago

i like the term bicurious (= covers a lot of it (: but i also agree with just4today. really it matters nothing what you are, if anyone ask your interested in guys and girls, if they wanna label you thats up to them i guess (=

12 years ago

Whats going on....what helps...???

trymebry

12 years ago

Thanks everyone it does help

just4today

12 years ago

I've said it b4. I believe every human has the capacity to be attracted to either, or both sexes, at the same time. An attractive person (however you define that....physical..., intellectual.... emotinal....whatevr...) attracts us. And we sometimes want to consumate that with sexual or physical activity, sometimes not. But labeling someone "gay....bi....straight..." is unfair. I hav gay friends who have had str8 sex, and "str8" friends who hav had same sex activity and experiences. As long as you don't hurt anyone else, and you are comfortable with your PARTNER.....who cares what the label is. AND.....sexual preferences and physical attractions change with the situations we are in. I had some of the hottest sex I ever had in college with my roommate! (And had a serious girlfriend at the same time!)
I consider myself "bi" bcuz I've had both sexes, but when I wanna get really aroused alone, gay porn is all I watch. I just think the models / actors are more attractive, and same sex turns me on right at this time in my life! Don't be afraid of labels. Just be a good partner and good human being! Screw the labels!!

12 years ago

a good clue might be what triggers orgasm when you j/o. when i watch videos, i always think of a few stock images to finish. they are always guys from my past. i know i'm gay even tho i got married. if you use guys to trigger orgasm, that should tell you something. if you use girls...if both,

12 years ago

It shouldn't really matter what you are Bi Gay or whatever. Just as long as you are happy with who you are, don't let anyone try to tell you who or what you should be. Don't feel that you have to explain who you are, to anyone else either, unless you want to. There seems to be no explanation for what attracts each of us we are all different, so we may as well be happy and different.

12 years ago

Toby is wise way beyond his years and Rd is wise because of his years of wisdom and knowledge. I'd go with the advise from both of them. You won't find better advise anywhere.

okierob

12 years ago

I am the same way. I am attracted to both males and females. But I only look at gay porn. I consider myself bi.

12 years ago

i use either hand. am i bi-handed?

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