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An interesting, short article worth reading
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I believe this is a repost on my fav online zine, Slate. Lots of great journalists/authors, but this piece was a very interesting theory on it's subject: homophobia, and definitely worth a quick read.


http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2014/01/30/what_is_homophobia_why_straight_men_are_right_to_be_afraid_of_homosexuality.html

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New pics and videos
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Hi there! I have uploaded two videos and will upload more of them later. Just visit my profile from time to time and you won't be disappointed:)

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Acceptance.
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I was born with an eye condition. Basically...  my eyes can move independantly of each other.  Meaning, I can look straight ahead with one eye, and basically look in another direction with my other.  Sounds fun, huh?... but after being bullied, called names and so on I finally got sick of it all and ended up in hospital  (I wont say how). It got to the point where I could not even look at myself in a mirror because I felt sick at what I saw. I hated me...  and I wanted me to vanish forever. Being Bipolar does not help either! But... i've learned to cope with THAT part of me now...  sort of lol. I've learned a lot from my close friends here and on G   (they know who they are). Today, I finally looked at myself in a mirror after 5 years. I stared into my own eyes and said to myself "I accept how I look..  and don't care what others think.  I am ME."   I'm even starting my own youtube channel where I plan to do some shows and live singing if I can.   Moral of this blog, and indeed my words is:  never be ashamed of how you look. And never, ever let others bring you down...  I did and look what happend!  Be yourself.  Phew..  never thought I'd tell anyone about it but there ya go hahaha. The old me is finally coming back :)

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letting go of the resentment
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Forgiveness is the remedy. It allows you to focus on the future without combating the past. To understand the infinite potential of everything going forward is to forgive everything already behind you. Without forgiveness, wounds can never be healed and personal growth can never be achieved. It does not mean you are erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you are letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life.

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US study reveals shocking statistics about LGBT people of colour
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US study reveals shocking statistics about LGBT people of colour
A study into the lives of LGBT people of colour in America has revealed high rates of unemployment, poverty and discrimination.


A third of LGBT Americans identify as being a person of colour, and many live in states which do not recognise their families â leading to increased taxes and healthcare costs. They are also more likely to be parents than white LGBT people.


55% of Native American LGBT people are living in poverty, along with 34% of black trans people.


The percentage of black LGBT people who are unemployed is nearly twice that of the general population. Half as many have a university education than the general population.Ineke Mushovic, executive director of the Movement Advancement Project, which co-authored the study, said: âDisproportionate numbers of LGBT people of colour live in places that lack any explicit state-level protections for LGBT people.


âThis means that LGBT people of colour face a high risk of economic harm from anti-LGBT laws.


Based on the connection between poverty and an individualâs race or ethnicity, many LGBT people of colour are less able to absorb the financial penalties created by anti-LGBT laws when compared to white LGBT people.â

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Back Again!
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Hi all my friends. Finally I'm back again after almost 1 month because my password was not working anymore.


Today I got the new password from Webmaster and finally it was working, thank you very much for that. I hope that you all have a great weekend, I'm having a very hot here. Hahaha :) Hugs JayHa Long Bay

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I WANTED TO WISH YOU A HAPPY 1700 DAYS HERE JESSE
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AS AN OLDER MEMBER HERE JESSE THANKS FOR STICKING AROUND AND BEING A LOYAL FRIEND.


 


            

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whats in the bag hmmm lets take a look
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Rams Millerton lake
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question from my tumblr: What does that estim feel like?
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Hi, it feels absolutely fantastic, sort of like having an orgasm all the time the device is on. Itâs a tingling kind of sensation, depending on where you put the electrodes and how much power you set from a light kind of tickling to a very pleasurable pain. Suppose you can imagine which settings I prefer to useâ¦


I usually put all of the electrodes right on my dick, but sometimes on my asshole or nipples and armpits. I just find it awesome. Sometimes used for a real fast cum shot within seconds or for nice long precum milking. I once was dared to use it when outside, which I did. Very horny but also very unpleasant as I cummed when in a shop and I couldnât turn the thing off.

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question from my tumblr: Do you like rude talk? What ist your favourite thing you get called or would like to be called?
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Yeah nice question, yes I do ;-)


I like it when I get called humiliating things like useless cum dump, slut, bitch, worthless slave and so one. One of my new favourites I something I saw here âuseless little boy sluts like you usually get used to being chained up and fed cum and piss after a while. You will too soonâ

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AHA! I KNEW THERE WAS A LOT OF SUCKING GOING ON IN THAT INTERNATIONAL SPACE STATION!
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Sucking (water) in space! Rather sensual, isn't it? And he LOVES it!

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I need to delete a video :c?
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Hi , please I need your help well there a video in this page were im on it .. i need to find the way to delete it PLEASE PLEASE someone helps me

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LIFE'S LITTLE TRAUMAS.....
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When you get home from work and remember that you have leftovers and you don't have to cook!


"YEA....YIPPIE!"



 


 


When you discover that you ate them last night.


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Hello Community!
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Finally I decided to create my own account at this beautiful page. So I hope for lots of nice people, nice chats and of course more hot stuff...see ya soon ;-)

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hot teens
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Hi guys! i have hot teen boys pictur. but i cannot upload. anyone know how to upload it in this site? please let me know.!

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Gay Cinema: Gerontophilia
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ON FILM: Gerontophilia

Gerontophilia is exactly what the title says it is: LaBruce has, true to presumed form, turned his attention to a sexual orientation that has had almost no airplay and the mere thought of which will likely gross out a lot of the audience.


Young Lake (Pier-Gabriel Lajoie) gets a summer job in a nursing home where the old people are kept sedated much of the time. He forms a bond with an old theatrical hoofer, Mr Peabody (Walter Borden), who is still canny enough not to take his pills; that bond becomes a love affair.


There is nothing here that should gross anyone out; Gerontophilia is a really sweet romance. For the first time, in fact, LaBruce was able to make his film with Canadian government funding and a proper crew.


Will the hard-core fans say he sold out? ''Absolutely,'' says LaBruce gleefully, after his film has shown in Venice with â and this is another first â almost no spluttering walkouts. ''But I always have a romantic element. For example, part of Hustler White, my film about male prostitutes, is that these people indulging in very extreme, crazy fetishes still fall in love and have their hearts broken, so it's not like it's completely alien to me.''


There is an immediate comparison to be made here with Hal Ashby's 1971 trans-generational romance Harold and Maude. LaBruce says he loves Ashby's film. ''But I didn't just want to make a queer Harold and Maude,'' he says. ''I also wanted to change it up a little bit in terms of the fetish of gerontophilia. Lake happens to get a job in an all-male assisted living facility but you have the impression he might be attracted to old women as well. He's attracted to people who are close to death, in a weird way.'' 


If he had an artistic reference point, he adds, it was probably Lolita.


At the same time, he liked the idea of becoming a Trojan horse, bringing a bit of freewheeling LaBruce sexual iconoclasm right into the rom-com arena. Old people who have or want sex, he observes, are conventionally portrayed as grotesques of one kind or another.


''Either they're cougars, these sexually predatory older women who try to look young and prey on young men, or just old people expressing their sexuality who are then ridiculed. So what if you tried, in perhaps a more mainstream idiom, to show the old person as a credible object of desire? That was part of my intention.''


Whether Lake is gay is irrelevant to LaBruce; in a way, being gay is irrelevant. ''I've never been much of a gay culture kind of guy, you know,'' he says blithely. ''That kind of 'you-are-or-you-aren't gay' identity doesn't make sense to me, because I think it fixes you. It limits people from having a sexual imagination â and that is what my films have always challenged.''


His next film, he adds, takes him right back to the forbidden territory that is the LaBruce stamping ground: it's about a female-to-male transsexual who cuts off men's penises; his flirtation with norm-core is already over.



Gerontophilia

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missed you all
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missed  you all ,got my tab swollen 

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Jurassic World (2015) Trailer #2
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Two thumbs up for the latest "Jurassic World" trailer. Check it yourself.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvR0UaEKjp0



Colin Trevorrow directs the new film â based on a screenplay he co-wrote with Derek Connolly â The cast includes Chris Pratt, Bryce Dallas Howard, Ty Simkins, Nick Robinson, Irrfan Khan, Vincent D'Onofrio, Jake Johnson, Omar Sy, BD Wong, and Judy Greer.  Jurassic World will be in theaters on June 12th.

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Back Street Boy Blog
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Toni had put up a blog sharing his feelings about GBT and in particular about uploads and support. I believe it was posted yesterday. This morning I posted on the blog to support Toni. Later this morning Nick18 posted in the blog and basically trashed many of Toni's uploads. And basically bitched Toni, and I assume me for posting in the blog about issues. Toni is not the only person that has raised issues. Others have on the same subject. Some member have gone completely silent and are not active here any more, some like me have stopped uploading because of the lack of positive feedback or response.


Just now I notice that Toni's blog has been deleted. Knowing Toni, I doubth that he would have done that. And there is only one other person that can delete a blog. Frankly for all the talk about "freedom of speech", it appears that only applies as long as one is not critical of the site or Nick. Now I fully expect this blog to be deleted. And perhaps Nick will delete me as well. So be it.


But for a site dependent upon its members to upload content, you would expect that uploaders would be at least be accorded some level of respect for their point of view. I do understand the issues around needing to curate uploads. But the fact is, that many uploaders have asked for some feedback about why their stuff is not approved. But in my over 1,300 days here, that has never happened. I understand the stres and work Nick has to put in to keep the site up and running, but to treat a long standing member the way he did is poor business and rude.


Just my humble opinion.


 


 

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curved or str8, stand up or sit down
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i love uniques cocks. everyone that looks the same gets boring. so is your erection straight or curved? how about does your erection salue the flag or put out for a handshake? or point down like a metal detector?

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What about some fun
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Im a wanker so listen and enjoy


 

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the light bulp blew out damn it
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GBT
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having probs with writing a blog,LOL,  this is and always be a community i hope...everyone knows the popular 1's,  i don't want to get involved with the "THIS AND THAT SHIT"...everyone sit back, relax(before you leave) and just take time to see what nick18 has instore for all with the upgrades, LMFAO...it should be better?

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Strangest conversation
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I recently changed my profile picture from myself to a young Leonardo Decaprio. Here's why. I'm at work and one of the married guys askes to talk to me. He takes forever to get around to it but says he saw my profile here. He asked that I not say anything but he wanted to warn me that if others at work (correction officers) saw it or found out about it it would cause me grief. He said he just wanted to give me a head's up about it. After he was gone I of course think of the perfect question of why he was looking here anyway? Seems some married guys wander to the other side? How about that? I guess I knew it happens but still it was one hell of a suprise.

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Finding the right spot
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Looking for love
Added: 855 days ago / Views: 301

I know this might attract the wrong people but willing to take the risk. I am 40 year old gay guy in UK looking for my "soulmate", if such a person/thing exists. :-). Usually I go for younger guys. By younger I do not mean under 18, however, just to clarify!! My ideal guy is in late 20s or 30s. Of course they have to be gay and also be comfortable with that. Hope I get some genuine replies!!

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Mad about BB-8 ♥
Added: 856 days ago / Views: 188

The new adorable little droid from "Star Wars: The Force Awakens"



 

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photo war
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is there a photo war between jericho and bouchonjQuery182042702853844321875_1429571080144  just kidding. great photos guys keep em cumming!

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photo war
Added: 856 days ago / Views: 158

is there a photo war between jericho and bouchonjQuery182042702853844321875_1429571080144  just kidding. great photos guys keep em cumming!

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so anyone from ohio?
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Hey! so anybody from ohio? hit me up if so! like to find some friends to chat

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Bottoms up
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Erect of Soft?
Added: 857 days ago / Views: 418

Which is your preference when looking at pics?

Personally I love a nice soft cock pic, before I get to see it grow nice and hard.

Love to hear your thoughts.

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So...
Added: 857 days ago / Views: 309

So I'm want to meet a guy who I've met online, he's offered to tie me up which is something I've wanted for ages! I've been speaking to him for a while and he seems really nice and real, however I know this can be esiliy put on over the internet, so I should I go about this? Any advise would mean the world to me, Thanks! 

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How many of you use your photos on the avatar?
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So I'm a bit new to this site since I'm still trying to come to terms with myself, but I wonder, how many of you guys show your actual faces on this site?

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Alguien habla español?
Added: 857 days ago / Views: 232

Deseo tener amigos que hablen español

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Are there any other autistic guys in here?
Added: 858 days ago / Views: 334

I am an aspie, and yes I don't have a proper social life, but to be prety honest I don't give a f*ck and I'm fine with that. What I want to know is if there are any other guys here who are either really socially awkward or fall anywhere in the austistic spectrum. 

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TIme to party...Playbuddy123 turns 1,800 day.
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Please join Sumpterz and I in celebrating Jake's anniversary here.


Congrats Jake..and to 1,800 more.


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A fashion revolution?
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Gender nonconforming boys are getting a lot more coverage in the media recently. In just the past week on Facebook I've seen at least five posts from different pages promoting fashion freedom. It all seemed to reach a head when Jaden Smith was caught wearing a dress out in public. I never thought it would happen so suddenly, but people's attitudes are definitely changing about male gender norms. Now if we could just campaign for our own letter within the LGBTQ initialism, it would certainly help to validate our existence!


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help please..
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Trying to delete a video and it will not work. Id like for it to be removing asap. But it wont let me... Help please?

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