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Bi vs Gay

1antoniomac Blog Last Activity 6 years ago 48K views 42 comments
Do more guy say they bi or gay. Me im bi and loving it

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amantedelaguacate
6 years ago

There is a stigma in the GLBTQI arena about "bisexuals not really fitting in" with the rest of us.


Don't know if this is the main reason, but I'll tell you one thing that actually scares me off from a guy who says he's "bi".  (Scared because it's happened to me in my life.)  That, yeah, a bisexual male may love females and males totally equally, 50% on each side.  BUT, when given the choice to get into a loving, monogamous / fidelitious relationship with a) a given man or b) a given woman, 2 people of equal merit, won't he choose the woman EVERY TIME?  Just because it's still a hundred times more socially-acceptable in the USA to be "hetero" than "homo"?


(For the same reason, I try to stay very-clear away from "straight" married men.  Married men who like guys (a sub-set of bisexuals), will always put the woman as #1, and kids and home and idea of "family" close behind that, and you'll be lucky to be in the top 10....)


Sorry if I didn't word that very well....

amantedelaguacate
6 years ago

To myself I say I'm queer (a.k.a. gay).  I'm 95%-99% into males and the rest into females.  (Far and few between, but yes some females can rev me up.)


To people who won't scorn me, I say, "I'm queer, I'm into guys."  (And have confided this to my family, which HAS scorned me for it, though in retrospect they always have while assuming it (correctly).  That's why they're my Ex-Family;  and my Family now consists of 3 friends of mine in Europe.)


When I don't want to stand out, or don't feel entirely comfortable in a situation, but am comfortable enough to say something, I'll say (lying a little) that I'm "bi"....  If I say anything at all.  


Personally I don't feel the whole world has to know I'm queer.  That's one reason I got my ears pierced a decade ago;  I don't otherwise act effeminate (except for, I've been told, "the way I smoke a cigarette", but I don't smoke anymore!), I cringe at the phrase "straight acting"** but I am masculine in my behavior I guess.  I somehow felt (and it turns out to be true) that if I had earrings (which I thought would be cool anyway), fewer nosey people would "have" to know all about my romantic life.


**(I'm not straight, nor am I acting.  And most definitely, when alone & intimate with a guy I am anything BUT "straight-acting"!)

6 years ago

I don't love labels much either, their meanings seem to change every few decades. Bi, Gay, Straight... etc. are just labels. The only one I care about it that I'm a human being who cares and loves other humans.

triston
6 years ago

I am not big on labels so I would call myself open!

6 years ago

Gay; don't think I've ever even spoken to a female.

bigeorge
6 years ago

BI and love it

Dallas
6 years ago

I am GAY GAY GAY.

zombilicious
6 years ago

Can I be bisexual and asexual ?

fabiomassimo108
6 years ago

I've been gay since I was born, I've never found a sexually attractive girl, so I do not understand how bisexuals can be. Personally I would have preferred to be bisexual, everything would be much simpler but I do not feel any attraction for the female body.


I think that bisexuals are enormously lucky, they can live a life that is practically normal (apparently) without undergoing the physical or psychological harassment that society imposes on us total gay

bike10
6 years ago

Had crush on couple of girls in early days, then came junior high school the onset of puberty.  Found out guys were better to look at when in the locker room.  Gay now all the way.

bravo1
6 years ago

Bi.  I love girls but I get turned on by a young guy with a rally hot body.

penishound
6 years ago

Bi, the best of both worlds

6 years ago

Why must everyone put a label on it? cant you just be horny and "Love the one you're with" I guess if I have to label it I am omnisexual, if its warm and Im horny I might try to fuck it!

red1844
7 years ago

bi

7 years ago

Gay

jakeyb
7 years ago

Bi for me definitely

bqhickory
7 years ago

i agree with bengay 100% i had sex with  girl uck then found cock and been sucking it ever since and being plowed by it :) :) mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm so for me its 100% gay 

7 years ago

When I was in my teens I dated Girls and liked it Then I met this Boy and we gave each other a Blow Jobs and I Liked Boys and sucking cocks a lot more Now the thought of a woman makes me UUUGGGG


So Im Gay and Loving it  Give me a cock to suck and in my ass any day over a woman

PavelDmitrievich
7 years ago

It really matters how much you want to commit as a person,kind of ideologically. I was always gay. I always wanted just another guy. But I could never find a man who would commit to me for a longtime relationship. I married a woman because I wanted some social stability and fun. I recommend against it.

BlueBalls
7 years ago

I like to suck cock and I like it in my bum so I'm straight up GAY!

Davey1965
7 years ago

Your gonna get it.. Copper was kicked out of A Nude drawing class.. He kept drawing models with clothes on.. He said to the teacher. Why didn't someone say they had to be nude.. That's our Coopee Poopee lol