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Barebacking and Gay Marriage
I'm glad that barebacking has become the "standard" in gay porn. And I think that the acceptance of gay marriage has something to do with it. It's absolutely amazing that gay marriage has spread to the suburbs. Down the street a woman who teaches in the elementary school told me that it is no longer uncommon for a kid to have two mommies. And guys are pretty open in introducing their husbands. In May someone told me that he and his husband were planning to go to Europe and both wanted my recommendations on where to stay and what to see. Quel surpris! I don't have working Gaydar anymore because I had no ide these guys had tied the knot. I saw them together a lot but just assumed it was because they share the same profession and work in the same organization... But what is the connection with barebacking?
Just remember, if you can, that safe sex was promoted to reduce the huge risks of promiscuous gay sex. But putting on thick rubbers was always a turn-off, and porn movies continued to show barebacking even when we were losing a generation of gay actors. The same demand for safe sex does not apply in a monogamous marriage, if both partners are faithful. Ergo enjoy natural sex the way God intended it. if you're married. And if you're still waiting for Mr Right, it's OK to watch and fantasize.
Special thanks to Anais who has endowed GBT with a wonderful library of young guys barebacking. Love You!