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Any 1 got any tips

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has anyone got any tips on how to get with someone cuase im feeling rather lonely and jealous of all the people on facebook and on here with boyfriends or girlfriends and just want some tips on how to just get one or at least become good friends

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12 years ago

You need to get out of the house for one thing, find a hobby or an interest that allows you to meet people. Draw attention to yourself...get noticed. Give the impression that you are worth getting to know, that you would be a great guy to be friends with. People need to know who you are, how good you are, how cool you are and what a stud you are. You should join a voluntary organisation or do voluntary work in a charity shop. Join a voluntary group that may be involved in cleaning up a local beach, or cleaning up a local childrens play area. Join a walking group, join a local church group, join a local youth group. Stop being lonely and start living.

Toby19
Toby19
12 years ago

The best tip i can give is just be yourself, dont worry too much about not having a BF, your only 17 so maybe you should first start by making friends with people, read their profiles and if you like the vibe they give, send them a pm. Who knows maybe you will make a few good friends.. :)... i am sure that soon enough that someone special will enter your life. ....Just try not to get too hooked on the idea of finding that one special guy quickly, relax and take it slow and enjoy yourself..:))) .. You will find him/her when you least expect it ......Toby xxx

seadog
seadog
12 years ago

I probably could use more advice than I can give on just this subject. Have gone through several intense periods of my life, each lasting about four years, with loneliness and jealousy you speak of. Thinking about this, I would advise to stay with your feelings, first, stay "in your body", to know its needs, and to follow the wants of your heart, always. Hurt is unavoidable, whether connected or not with others. But avoiding placing blame on yourself and others will help with accepting yourself, your needs and wants and your feelings. I hope this helps, chap. You sound like a good man.

12 years ago

please ignore my friend request...I hit the wrong button

12 years ago

I totally understand how you feel. I'm sorrry that you're lonely and jealous. I have a best tip for you, BUT it'll be little hard for you. The best tip for you is to accept who you are. I hope it's helpful for you. If you want to talk with me more, please inbox me. Thank you so much. I hope you get better soon. :)

12 years ago

I totally understand how you feel. I'm sorrry that you're lonely and jealous. I have a best tip for you, BUT it'll be little hard for you. The best tip for you is to accept who you are. I hope it's helpful for you. If you want to talk with me more, please inbox me. Thank you so much. I hope you get better soon. :)

12 years ago

I totally understand how you feel. I'm sorrry that you're lonely and jealous. I have a best tip for you, BUT it'll be little hard for you. The best tip for you is to accept who you are. I hope it's helpful for you. If you want to talk with me more, please inbox me. Thank you so much. I hope you get better soon. :)

12 years ago

I totally understand how you feel. I'm sorrry that you're lonely and jealous. I have a best tip for you, BUT it'll be little hard for you. The best tip for you is to accept who you are. I hope it's helpful for you. If you want to talk with me more, please inbox me. Thank you so much. I hope you get better soon. :)

12 years ago

I totally understand how you feel. I'm sorrry that you're lonely and jealous. I have a best tip for you, BUT it'll be little hard for you. The best tip for you is to accept who you are. I hope it's helpful for you. If you want to talk with me more, please inbox me. Thank you so much. I hope you get better soon. :)

12 years ago

I totally understand how you feel. I have a best tip for you, BUT

12 years ago

ack! toby19 not toby18

12 years ago

sean, dont let a social network make you feel left out- right? now on here i tell you friend toby18 and alex17 cos they can help you here. i just send you a friend req and i am starting a site for male friendship that has no porn. i know what you mean about getting hit on, but i find that most older guys here even tell you they dont want to bust into your pants but be friends. i am only 20 and you say i am too old and i sorta get that and peeps that dont respect you want to be with your own age then have other friends to get on their case and back you up cos i would and i know a lot of others would like were your big bros. if 2 or more people want to be 'just friends' then they can make promise to self and each other that can be better than one night ya know? dont cut off friends before you even get to know em a little, but ya be careful and you got at least me for backup and i am sure lots of others. message me and i will give you some links for safe places.

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
12 years ago

get a face pic up. nobody want to talk to an avitar

12 years ago

take a chance and talk to people, make friends, be yourself, get to know them, and dont be too shy lol

LiveYourLife
LiveYourLife
12 years ago

anton yes, exactly, it has been said, be yourself - live your life: P

12 years ago

True to that anton! Same boat as you Sean.

1antoniomac
1antoniomac
12 years ago

That old corny saying of just be yourself yeah that one go with that