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A HAPPY LIFE AHEAD (i hope)

Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 795 views 19 comments
As i said in my previous blog my boy friend (he is 9 years younger than me) we are going to live together for the very first time..we will be moving into my parents second home a stone built cottage in Haworth West Yorkshire UK..a village made famous by the Bronte Sisters....
'Jane Eyre' and 'Wuthering Hights' anyone interested in literature will know the stories!!
I hope that living together 'works out' for us both..we are very compatible and care for each other very much...Any tips and advice from GBT members will be appriciated!!

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11 years ago

the age difference need not make a big difference but you will both need to be willing to compromise, be thoughtfull and truthfuly conciderate. several (comedy) rules would be.
There is NO i in committment.
Be positive.. think the glass is half full (even if its obviously half empty) and even if it IS half empty remember that you are drinking from the full bit ... not the empty bit.
Happiness is no laughing matter
Don't be yourself, be someone a little nicer
Start your day with a smile and get it over with
A thick skin is a gift from God
It's not the strongest who survive, nor the most intelligent, but the ones most adaptable to change
It's not what you know, it's how loud you say it
If A is success in life, then A equals X plus Y plus Z. Work is X; Y is play; and Z is keeping your mouth shut.

Have fun
love RusTXXX

jagain569
jagain569
11 years ago

so your bf is 17 and your 26? all i have to say is that you should wait. allow him to finish school and possibly go to collage. if for some reason you two brake up at least let him have another life started to fall back on as the break up would be much harder after living together.
when someone decides to live with another at a young age they close meany doors. allow him to have some left open. its what a reasonable person would do for a loved one.
hope all gos well!

11 years ago

yes peter 308 that the one cool some no some about railway pop round and i show you my choo choo

11 years ago

yes peter 308 that the one cool some no some about railway pop round and i show you my choo choo

11 years ago

yes peter 308 that the one cool some no some about railway pop round and i show you my choo choo

11 years ago

there a lovey railway there you can vist it it great and you can play role play game you the lover back from a long trip you meet fall in love again your just treat your self to a meal
just rember when the waiter say i say the sauage is good does means he come on to you

11 years ago

WELL - Livingnude said it well. I will add this to his comment. If YOU change him, you'll find out he's no longer the person you fell in love with. AND - ALWAYS BE HONEST, No Matter WHAT. Good luck and God bless.

Peter308
Peter308
11 years ago

Haworth is on the Keighley and Worth Valley Railway isn't it? Congrats on your house and such!

jon2489
jon2489
11 years ago

Good luck to you both, I live not far awy from Haworth. Really nice place x

fungus320
fungus320
11 years ago

Love one another unconditionaly

11 years ago

Thanx guys for all the good advice given..yes we both like our own space and doing our own thing..i am sure it will all 'work out' ok ..we do work together at the same hotel in the lake district..i am his boss at work..so he does what i tell him to do...at home it will be a different matter!!

letsGO
letsGO
11 years ago

Good luck, from my experience living with my "EX" for 3 years, giving each other space (alone time) is very important...anything else i'm glad to help

11 years ago

Oops, my bad english: I couldn't agree with livingnude more...

11 years ago

Can't agree to livingnude anymore! Who tries to turn someone to be who you like him to be, will eventually fail! There's no exception. Just be who you are and let him be who he is, but it doesn't mean that you two don't have to talk, discuss or fight (a good way to love each other even more, and love making after fight is just... Awesome ;p). Be compatible like you said, give each other freedom and space at home, always humorous and honest. Have a beautiful life then! :)

11 years ago

Always be open, humorous, tolerant, kind and "polite" (I think say "Thanks" or "Please" is so important in a living-together-relationship) to each other, there are always some unhappy and fights, but do not take anything seriously, always think, you are mad, because you love him so much, care him so much. On the contrary, too. And always talk about your love, kiss him, everywhere. (I've had a big fight couple years ago with my partner, because of which side of toilet roll should be inserted, open folded to the wall, or to the person? And of course, we use 2 toothpaste! ;D)